Hysterectomy done and dusted

Hallo Tia, well done for posting and sharing how you’re feeling. It’s understandable to have mixed feelings even when getting good news because, having spent so much time and energy being scared, and being looked after by your medical team, it can feel scary to suddenly be basically told well now it’s over and off you go. Many hospitals do a “Life after cancer” course to help people come to terms with things and to move on. I’d recommend giving your CNS a call, letting them know how you are feeling, and asking them if there’s one of these courses.

Hi Tia,

My situation is different to yours but I know exactly how you feel. I had my oncology apt a few weeks ago for CT results after 6 cycles of chemo. My treatment was successful and there was no active cancer to be seen on the scan. I came away from that apt feeling very lack lustre and my husband commented that I seemed disappointed that I didn't have cancer anymore. This was obviously not the reason but I had a lot of mixed emotions.

I came across an article which is available online by Dr Peter Harvey - After treatment, what now? This covers the psychology and reactions after treatment for cancer. I learnt that my reaction is very common and the reasons for it.

I have had counselling sessions also which were a good help. Would this be useful? I would take Marmite's advice and speak to your CNS first, see what is offered.

Best wishes Tia,

A x