Biopsy wait

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It’s now five weeks since I had my biopsy and still no results. Is it normal to wait this long? While I am optimistic it is still obviously a very worrying time. I am plodding on every day but finding it hard to make any plans for the near future just in case they are thwarted. I don’t really want to tell anyone so it’s difficult to explain why I may not be able to accept upcoming events and invitations. I feel as if my life is on hold until I get my results. I have days when I am my usual ‘bouncy’ self, then other days when I just want to be alone. I suppose in hindsight this is normal, however, I do wish I could tell someone, last week I was accused of being anti social because I didn’t feel like meeting and going for lunch. I am afraid I lost my temper a bit with my reply. 

  • Hi Polly,  can I just say I'm in the same situation as you.  I had the biopsies taken the 28th July and still waiting. I rang my consultants secretary on Friday and she explained my results were back but I need to wait for contact from the doctor...the doctors will be in touch a.s.a.p but couldn't give a date! . I understand the clinic is extremely busy trying to deal with the back log of ppatients  it just doesn't help when your worrying about the results.  Let's hope that no news is good news for us both . Xx

  • Hiya Shelly, thank you for your input. Like you I keep telling myself that ‘no news is good news’, but it doesn’t stop the worrying eh? I had to phone my GP last week for my prescription, I asked if I had any results and obviously the answer was negative. As I mentioned in my original post I have become very moody which is uncharacteristic of me, family is noticing but I don’t feel I can tell them why. How are you coping with the worry and wait? xx

  • Hi ,

    I’m sorry to hear your biopsy results are taking a long time, I can only imagine how difficult this must be. 

    I think timeframes vary a lot depending on the hospital/consultant. Do you have a specialist nurse? If so perhaps they may be able to help you. 

    I too chose not to tell anyone, so I can completely empathise with how difficult it is with not being able to make plans. I really struggled with what to say when friends asked me to make plans with them. 

    I hope you get your results real soon, please do keep us posted. 

    Vulval cancer warrior xx

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