13th operation for vin and ain 3

Hey I’m feeling ok, I have a left lip like hell raisers head but it’s getting there slowly. I’m so sorry to hear your op got cancelled it’s so frustrating when that happens. At least you will be able to enjoy your Christmas Day still. It doesn’t hurt too much after to be honest it’s more annoying than anything.

ive not bad results yet but I got given two appointments on the same day one at the Marsden and one to see my surgeon. I’ve cancelled the Marsden as I want to know about the ain3.

I'm glad your remaining positive it really does help a lot even when you don’t think it is you will look back and see. 
chin up though chick you’ve got this!! Xxx

Hey chick...oh im so sorry to hear ya poor left lip...ha ha hell raisers head tho....love that..we will have a full pair of lips between us lol..our poor little fairys man..least its all gone tho..and keeping everything crossed for the ain3..u always so postive in your messages hope u ok ...yep ill get mine sorted and can enjoy xmas as they said it takes 2 weeks for the results to come back.....let me knkw if i ever wana chat...im always here hun...u just rest up and let ya fairy heal ..thinking off u ..lots of love ..xxxx

Lol it will get there it’s healing which is the main thing. Before I had the vaccine my body wasn’t healing itself and just became infected so this time has been bliss. Yeah our fairies have been and are going through it mate. I have no doubt that you will do your best to fight anything that stands in your way. You seem like a strong woman!! 

yeah so you will get your results around the 20th December I will message you around that time to see how you are doing girl. Just keep that positive attitude it serves you well in the end. 

Same to you if ever you need a chat you know where I am and thank you for saying that it means a lot, Take care xx

Hey chick..how u doing..hows the fairy is it healing well ...i had my op yesterday and all went really well..the consultant said he thinks he got it all he removed nearly all my right labia and i looked and its not too bad its black and blue , he wasn't concerned that it was cancer ...im buzzing ..i gotta go back in a 2 months to check it and i get the results after xmas..but feel amazing..now i can enjoy xmas with my baby girl.. hope your ok and u ate all excited for xmas ..sending lots of love xxxxxxx

OMG Woop woop I’m so super happy for you girl! That’s awesome and I can hear the excitement in your message. Can you see now why I told you to remain positive? It’s a lot nicer way to live through it. Bless ya now you can enjoy your baby girl xxx

I also had an op yesterday got the news that I don’t have and vin3 a bit of vin2 and 1 but for now I’m good to get pregnant so that’s next and I can’t wait. Cherish your Christmas and have an awesome time. I really can’t express how happy I am for you mate. It’s stories like this that that I like to hear and as for the bit of missing lip anyone who loves you sees right past that don’t you worry xxx

take care and keep in touch xxx

Ha ha that's mad u can tell that from my message... om just absolutely buzzing its all done ..and yep i can enjoy xmas and ill never leave anything i see different ever agian down there ..ill be checking it weekly for changes ..not even that bothered bout my missing lip..im alive and thats all that matters..u are so right my hubby has been so supportive and hes not bothered what my fairy looks like...it aint no flower since I had a baby tho ha ha .

That is amazing news..im so pleased for u ..i so deserve your happy ending ..u been through so much ..i bet u get preggers really quickly i just have a feeling ..keep me posted on how u get on ..hope u and ya family have the best xmas and lets hope 2020 is the best year ever ..keep in touch ..take care..sending lots of love and  baby fairy dust to u xxxxx

Do you know what? As much as you feel I have helped you, your positive attitude after losing the lip has kinda jogged my own brain into self acceptance. I’ve been with my partner coming up to 8 years and she has been awesome about everything. She loves me for me and I forgot that somewhere along the line. So thank you for sending me that sentence... not even that bothered bout my missing lip..im alive and thats all that matters.. because your so right!!! 

I wish you and your family all the best for the future. Make every day count!! I will keep you updated on my journey. Hopefully at the beginning of feb we will get inseminated and start our family. We want to foster in the future because we both wanted big families but being gay it’s not that easy. So £10,000 later and hopefully we will have two babies if all goes well. I lost a boy before so hopefully this time I will be able to carry full term.

Merry Christmas to you and yours, take care xxx

Wishing u all the luck in the world and u will get your dream ..i know u will ...lots of love xxxxxx

Hi I’m just seeing how you are xx I had my op on New Year’s Eve they removed right side of vulva and removed another area to biopsy so I have to see consultant in few weeks for results and to discuss the surgery xx I feel bit in the dark with it all x but I’m not in pain I looked in mirror today for first time and got emotional struggling a bit with it all but I hope that I accept it soon it’s only been few days xxxx how are you feeling was your op ok etc xxxx

Hello, I’m doing ok just had my last stitch removed yesterday. I do have a couple of new lesions but only vin1 for now. I’m sorry to hear you had yours on New Year’s Eve but at least you entered 2020 in a better place. The best piece of advice I can offer you about looking at it is... do look at it and even if you feel disgusted or emotional about it, just keep looking coz one day you will look it will start to look better and you will have appreciation for the scars that saved your life. Give it time and stay positive always. You’ve got this  keep me posted on your results xx