Hi
feel a bit of a fraud, it’s not me who is suffering but my wife. She was diagnosed tith DCS in situ 12 years ago. Had a mastectomy and reconstruction, supposed MRI each year but quickly dropped off to Scan every year.
She has Braca2 last year in May she felt a strange lump in her arm pit but thought it was scar tissue.
Turned out it was Triple Neg stage 4 grade 3 with lung metastasis.
She had 6 rounds of chemo and that ended in December 4 months later the original cancer is growing and seems to have invaded her Lymph gland nearby.
My question is does that mean it will travel all through her lymphatic system?
So I have lots of friends work in busy hospital, we go out for lunch , walks or just talk . I encourage my husband to go and see his friends without me so he can talk as I know he’s scared shitless And he won’t talk to me .Dave you need to look after you too , I think it’s worse for you men than us going through it to be honest . Anyway take care keep in touch let me know how your both doing 
eep strong Sue xx
Thank you 
that CT is ok , finished chemo waiting for radio had another op on Wednesday to clear the margins hoping it’s ok . Take care both xx
