Hello all mu mum got cancer

Welshchick1995 over 1 year ago

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I really dunno what to do or surport I'm 27 years old female. my mum is 54 but got told today my mother only got a year to 18 months to live she got a rare form of stomach cancer where chemo will only give her a extra 2 months to live.my dad my mother husband is blind and he taking it really hard so am I I really duno what to say or do it killing me and it heart breaking knowing this news and I cant get my head round the news I keep on thinking it all wrong and I cant accept it sorry all need to talk to people who can understand where I'm coming from

Vespa ets over 1 year ago

Hi, I’m so so sorry to hear of your mums diagnosis… you’ve done the right thing in reaching out to talk. Are there any support centres near you where you can go and chat in person to someone? For example a Maggies centre. They helped my husband last year when I got diagnosed. Your emotions of shock will be all over the place and you will be in denial of the news for a long time and the same for your mum and dad too. Has any of your mums team of doctors/oncologists offered any support and what is going to happen next?
Im the same age as your mum and have two sons 28 and 26, all I wanted to do was hug them. Just give your mum lots and lots of cwtches, it’s a medicine by itself…

Sending hugs from Scotland.
Take care

Michele

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