Hi, i am 50, happily maried, 2 kids. Just found out about a neoendocrine tumore in my belly. The cureis total gastrectomy. My husband send me this support group and i read some very positive post. I am very scared and frighten about my future life. I am gona be sick all the time? I can be happy again with my family. Please sent tips on how to recover, exercise, whaterver you feel like shareing. Thank you, and God Bless you
Hi, I’m sorry to hear your news, it’s really frightening, there’s lots of people on here that have had a TG and they are now leading a life they thought they might not get, it’s really difficult to stay positive but ask as many questions as you need to, it’s easier to cope once you have a treatment plan, everyone here will try and help you x
Hi, I had a sub total in April 2024 and pretty much back to normal, I’m sure you will get replies from others that have had a TG. I know there were a few people at the time, you will need to eat very small portions and it’s a good idea to get prepared before the operation, I prepared a lot of soft foods and froze them in small containers, you might also like to have a look at this book which you might find helpful for you and your family it’s available on kindle as well it’s called
The Art of eating without a stomach, by Dr Peter Thatcher
Yes I have put some weight back on, it takes a while, friends were helpful especially helping with walking my dog, I tried to just take a day at a time, I found therapy helped last year because during treatment that’s all I had to think about, so could avoid the emotional stuff , but a year on my emotions were all over the place, we are all different so it’s not the same for us all, you will get there, use this forum and the MacMillan staff will always listen to you and give you support x
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