So after quite a lengthy period of bowts of stomach pain and taking medication a different doctor at my surgery sugested i stop the medication in case it was masking something, and unfortunately the pain returned so i was sent for an endoscopy which was done by a surgeon who knew right away that i had stomach cancer, biopsies were taken and i was sent for a CT scan. An mdt meeting was held and i was informed of the outcome, I had Arenocarcinoma cancer (T3 N1 M x) The M could not be determined as there was an indeterminate left lower lobe pulminary micro nodule that was to be monitored
I now have a staging Laproscopy in two days time which will determine which route of treatment i go down. The hope is that the cancer has not spread into the fluids around my stomach which will mean i go on to a course of chemo 4 x 2 weekly followed by a Gastrectomy and then more chemotherapy with a view to a cure.
I have to say how impressed i am with the speed at which things have gone so far and i am also staying positive with the journey ahead. For information i am a 62 year old male normally fit and well with fantastic support from my wife and best friend Jo.
In a strange way I was really glad to read about others having issues this far after surgery as I didn’t want to post and be the only negative one. I’m six months post op now and it’s still hit or miss. Eating is no pleasure at all. Maybe one or two spoonfuls then it’s either the pain, the regurgitation or stomach pains and feeling of food stuck. I feel like I’m whinging but I loved my food pre op and I thought I read everyone was great 6 months after, eating good portions, enjoying food like before etc. I’m never hungry either and just eat every four hours (can’t manage more frequent as I feel so full) only to maintain weight and even one or two days of skipping one meal and bam weight down under 100lbs.
I am very grateful to be doing well and hopefully cancer free, I would just like to hear that it will get better or if not then I’ll try to adjust my lifestyle as eating out is no pleasure at all and maybe I am doing something wrong? I’m going Saturday for CAT scan and barium swallow so if that’s all normal I’ll pull myself together and stop moaning!
Dear Milly, you are not alone. My husband had a total gastrectomy in October 2021 and eating continues to be a struggle. It is so hard for him to maintain his wait. Like you he can hardly manage more than 4 small meals. Meals are a hit and miss, he no longer enjoys food as often it will cause pain, feeling very full or has to throw up. When this happens he has to wait until discomfort subsides and then start again. No reason was found, he had a barium swallow and a gastroscopy, all was fine. Food has become his medicine. I wish you all the best, every day is a blessing
Thank you so much. It’s reassuring that this may be my new normal. I can live with that. I guess it’s true what other people say that you are always acutely aware that there is a spread of cancer but to hear your husband is two years post op and still having these issues but it’s only due to the new plumbing is a relief for me, sorry for your husband! Great to hear he has normal results.
Hi I had my operation on the 7th August. I had and still have all these issues however I am constantly eating. I have noticed if I eat what I crave it doesn't give me a side effects. I do have to eat small portion and often. I am taking green tea after each meal. That does help me. I have struggle with drinking any liquid other than hot tea or milk . I also take tumeric with hot milk every morning. X
Hello I just won`t to let you know. I had my operation in October 22 and had post op chemo which ended in Jan 23 and I still suffer from slight side effects even now. I have been told that these could last for up to 2 years. So you are not on your own in this. The effects are starting to subside but only very slowly.
Thanks I was getting worried. Maybe I need vitamins. I will do my blood test. Thanks
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