Hi, I'm here as a mum whose adult son was recently diagnosed with skin cancer. He's been told it's only stage zero - but was previously worse? The stage zero and information that it was previously worse, but his immune system has made it better are all things I had no awareness of previously, and I suppose it should give me comfort that our immune systems are that incredible, but I have been supporting a work colleague /friend the past year who was diagnosed with bladder cancer, and yesterday she told me she has been told she has only months to live - and that is after radical surgery, chemotherapy and radiotherapy, and being told just 2 months ago that she was free of cancer. So stage zero doesn't feel like good news for my son now. He also lives in America and is having surgery next week, and he's scared. And I feel useless and scared for my son, and very sad for my friend. I feel a little self-centered messaging, as I'm sure there are many going through far worse, but I feel a little lost and in the need to connect with someone
