Hi....I vistited my doctor approximately 6 weeks ago on an unrelated matter and as part of that investigation I was subsequently sent for a blood test.
Two days later I had a call from the surgery saying could I come in that day and see the doctor. I'm 74 years old and my psa was 12, he explained he was putting me on a two week urgent referral for suspected Prostate cancer. Two days later I had a MRI which came back as suspicious and a week or so later I had my biopsy. Two weeks later I had an appointment at the results clinic where the diagnosis of cancer was confirmed.
The cancer is in both lobes, the right hand lesion being Gleason 3 and the larger left hand lesion being Gleason 4 (so 4+3) My T score was T2, borderline T3 as it is nearly breaking through and I was booked in for a bone scan and CT scan which I had last week and I am still waiting for the results of those scans.
It all seems a bit surreal at the moment and as so many people have said waiting for the results is the hardest part. Until I see the consultant again following the results of the scans I don't know at this stage what my treatment options will be. Also my prostate is quite enlarged 86 mls and I dont know if that will affect what treatment I can have. I'm trying to remain positive and research as much as I can.
I have loads of questions but the most important is where are getting your information from. Please ignore 95% of what’s on the internet and chatbots. You are not yet diagnosed fully so you can’t know what the treatments could be.
Are you alone or in a relationship? This is a couples disease that affects both equally, but on the good side the mainstay of your support is your partner.
From my experience you need to try and wait for the full diagnosis and treatment plans before you get too far down the route of one or other treatment.
I and all the forum members are with you but at the moment you’re in the horrible waiting period which is very hard on you, but everyone will wait with you and support you till you get the plans.
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