Day 6 after first Docetaxel session, still in bed

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Hello,

First posted earlier this week, I'm back again for your wisdom...

My H had his first infusion last Wednesday, was fine Thursday and Friday. Friday night went to bed early, and then has more or less stayed in bed Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday ... he did get up on Tuesday and went to work for a couple of hours, more for the company than anything, but ended up coming home exhausted. He says he feels weak, his legs are wobbly and won't hold him up, I've had to help him to the toilet and out of the bath a couple of times.

I've phoned the SACT nurse twice, they said it all sounds pretty normal, these reactions should be easing over the week - they're not really. The nurse emphasised how he should be drinking 2 litres of fluid a day to flush himself out, stay hydrated, but he's nowhere near this. Usually a complete coffee fiend, drinking water and juice is met with suspicion.

Bowels too, are a bit suspect. He's having usual yoghurt for breakfast, a baked potato at lunch, but this results in diarrhoea.

Does this sound pretty usual to you, am I fussing? 

Thankyou for reading

  • Hi, an unwelcome development this morning.

    OH was very tired again yesterday, he went to bed very early, says his legs ached and felt extra wobbly. 

    This morning, he says his knees are discolouring, going yellow.

    I phoned the Triage Nurse, they've asked him to go to the Assessment Unit at our hospital.

    The nurse asked about bladder and bowel movement, and whether the whites of his eyes are yellow too, they're not. I guess they're thinking of kidney function.

    Any thoughts from you?

    Thankyou

  • Hi Jess. Sorry to hear about this development. The yellowing could be a side effect of the cancer treatment but what the hospital will be checking for is bilirubin in the blood which might be a sign of liver toxicity. They will ask about the colour of the urine and stools so check if there has been a recent change. The chemotherapy can have odd side effects on skin colour, hair colour and texture so hopefully it is just something like this but it is always best to check it out. Let us know how you get on.

  • Hi  

    you have done the right thing by contacting the triage nurse. Better getting checked out by the medics and if necessary given treatment . 
    please keep in touch and hope it’s just a minor blip.

    hugs to you both 

    Liz & OH xx

  • Hi, yes, you were right, he had some blood tests, sat tight at hospital while they were analysed, came home and has gone to bed exhausted.

    The yellowing is a side effect of the chemotherapy. I suspected so, but the colour was quite violent and I didn't want to leave it to chance and it be something more serious.

    Thanks all <3

  • Hi  

    Glad it’s all ok. But worth checking .

    thank you for letting me know 

    hugs 

    Liz & OH xxx

  • Hi Friends...

    Since my last post, almost a couple of weeks ago, OH has had another MRI and the doctor at the assessment unit was pleased to tell him that after only 2 sessions of Docetaxel, an improvement can be seen in the tumours.

    This is excellent news of course, but there's a long way to go.

    Hi 3rd infusion is this week, there'll be 6 altogether, so if all goes to plan, he'll be finished mid June.

    He's having triplet therapy, but this isn't a curable situation.

    I understand they hope to stop the cancer being 'active' - but what happens after the run of chemotherapy?

    Thankyou Pray

  • Hi  , good news that the chemo is having a result already.  I am not medically trained but my understanding is that the chemo will kill most of the cancer.  Any bits that are left will go dormant with the HT for months or years.  In my case I had chemo in 2017 and the little blighters didn’t reappear until about 18 months ago.  Just take it day by day during chemo and once that is over, start to reclaim your lives.  David

  • Hi 

    I just reread your profile to get up to date, all very positive and what a great PSA!, without Enzalutamide too. You must be really happy,

    Lorraine Slight smile 

  • Many thanks Lorraine ( ), I took Enzalutamide for 3 months before Christmas, so my very low PSA might be as a result of that still lingering or it might be the SABR.  Either way, it is promising. I am due another blood test this week, but that might be skewed as I have just had the latest Covid jab.  Take care, David

  • Hi all,

    Just checking in, OH had his 3rd chemo session last week. Seemed to be much better in the first few days, but he is still insisting on doing pretty much a full week at work. There's no need to, his company have been fantastic, and he understands this.

    He loves his work, and the contact with people, and I understand this. Slight smile

    He comes home a little earlier in the evenings, but it's still not enough of a concession, as when Fridays roll round, he's exhausted and sleeps most of the weekend away.

    I've tried talking to him about it, and he says he's listening, but it seems to go in one ear and out of the other, as the following week, he does it all again. And then is surprised at how tired and ill he feels!

    I'm concerned that as the chemo timetable wears on, he is putting more pressure on his body if he is tired all the time.  Continued chemo will be having more and more impact on his immune system, and if he's tired, he'll end up with a cold or other infection more easily than if he is rested.

    Any thoughts or suggestions here, please?