I was diagnosed a week ago having gone through two PSA tests. An examination, then MRI and then biopsies. Whenever the C word is mentioned its a shock, but I was also relieved to finally have an answer as this all started before Easter. I had a blood test for something unrelated and thats how my GP found out that my PSA level was significantly high. I never for one moment thought anything about the prostate or cancer.
I took the past week off as sick leave as mentally I just crashed. Ive not slept more than 4 hours a night since my gp first discussed the possibility and working a mentally demanding job has just taken its toll. Ive chosen to have surgery to remove prostate so now its a case of waiting for that appointment. Ive got a supportive family and friends but how have other blokes coped with processing such news? Im 62, married for 41 years with two grown up Sons.
Hi Colin.
Welcome to the club - my usual opening line - you didn't want to join!
Interesting question - how have other blokes coped? We are all different and as with all cancers Prostate Cancer has different grades, speeds of spread and we all react to the diagnosis as individuals.
I received my diagnosis 19 months ago sat with my wife who is a nurse - she knew my reaction was going to be - I will fight this bastard - it's not going to win - and as at today it's Brian 1 - Cancer 0!
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I didn't get the option of surgery as my initial diagnosis was it may have left the gland - it hasn't but I am glad I have chosen the HT/RT route or rather it was chosen for me - we are all different, some people who can, just want the cancer out.
Try to remember this cancer is treatable and although the operation comes with side effects -- there will be plenty of community members replying to you who have had the operation and can give you more detailed information than me.
If you have time too spare you can click icon the icon of the beach and follow my journey. If you need any information give me a shout.
Good luck with the surgery - keep us posted as to your progress.
Kind Regards
Brian.
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Hi Colin
Yes - the diagnosis is a shock and coming to terms with all the medical jargon takes some doing too. I am doing well with HT/RT and I an in control of all the side effects now and life is back to normal - well as normal as it can get.
Good luck with everything - keep in touch.
Kind Regards
Brian.
Macmillan Support Line - 0808 808 00 00, 7 days a week between 8am-8pm
Strength, Courage, Faith, Hope, Defiance, VICTORY.
I am a Macmillan volunteer.
