Dad has prostate cancer

FormerMember
FormerMember
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Hello!

My 93 year old Dad was diagnosed yesterday with prostate cancer. We were told it is low-intermediate grade. He has been prescribed with Casodex tablets, which he has to take every day for the rest of his life. He was told that the side effects might be like going through the menopause. We have no idea how serious his cancer is. 

Dad’s been told he’ll get an appointment in three months to see how things are going. 

I know there’s a pandemic and that hospitals are short staffed, but I expected a follow up meeting with a Macmillan nurse, straight after Dad’s diagnosis  - which is what happened following my breast cancer diagnosis five years ago and my late mother’s lung cancer diagnosis. We feel a bit abandoned. We have no idea what it means by ‘ low- intermediate ‘ grade nor were we given any reasons as to why Dad had been put on these tablets - about which we know nothing. He was not offered surgery ( not surprisingly given the Covid situation) but would have liked an opportunity to ask about what this all means. Am I being over sensitive? 

Stephjc

  • Hi Steph , sort to hear about your dad 

    If you can get some more details there r many on hear we  who can give good advice 

    Info needed, PSa,  all if more than one.

    Gleeson score, this shows aggressiveness of tumour.

    MRI report, shows proximity of tumour within the gland.

    Best wishes 

    Steve

  • Hi Steph

    Nice age for your father, let’s hope he gets his telegram which he’s every chance of doing so. The tablets are to keep the cancer at bay without causing any serious side effects allowing for his age. He’s not incurable but some treatments can be very harsh, what he’s taking should keep him going for a long time.

    Your right about the hospitals, some are very over run, others are short staffed, your never alone when you speak to us, we will answer any questions you have, being over sensitive is a daughters prerogative, you know yourself how some treatments can be harsh, so worrying is part of the process. Let’s hope you get a call from the specialist nurse, if not no harm in phoning them and leaving a message if no one answers.

    Stay safe

    Joe

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to joeven

    Thanks for your message Joe. Dad has always been so fit that this diagnosis is shattering. He still goes to the gym and swims every day. He had two knee replacements just before the pandemic and was hoping to get back into competitive swimming ( he’s held British records for various  age groups ). Not knowing how  these tablets are going to affect him is worrying and I will use the ask the experts part of this forum. I am a cancer survivor and we watched my mum die from lung cancer four years ago. Dad is worried that he will suffer in the same way she did.

    Thank you for your support 

    Stephjc

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Grundo

    Will do so, used the Macmillan forum when I had cancer five years ago and found it really useful.

    Thank you for your helpful message 

    Stephjc