Prostate cancer and Bereavement

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    Hi all was diagnosed with Pc in February 2019. After months of arguments at GPs kept saying all I had was piles. Eventually had tests they said I didn’t need on Christmas Eve 2018. Results  came back in February you have local advanced Prostate Cancer.  PSA 21. Gleason score 7(3+4) 8(4+4). Put on HT. which was messed up by a Hospital Urologist Professor should have been on 150mg a day of Bicalutamide for 6 months before Radiotherapy he put me 300mg a day for the first 3 months before it was discovered. Didn’t please the Oncologist Specialist has he had given the treatment plan.Eventually had Radiotherapy in June/July 2019 last day July 12th . 2 days into my Radiotherapy my wife Penny Heart started suffering back pain problems taken to GP told it was Sciatica. It wasn’t on 17th October PennyHeart collapsed in the bedroom taken to hospital and diagnosed with Mets Breast Cancer and passed away on 6th November 2019. just 21 days after diagnosis Aged 67. In between the loss of Penny Heart️I had 2 other losses to cancer. 1 on a family anniversary 19th August who was then cremated on my birthday. 

  • Hi,

    Sorry to hear about your awful couple of years, Let's hope things are settling down for you now.

    Was your PCa a T3a or a T3b? And how has your PSA been since the radiotherapy?

    And finally, did you have a course of hormone therapy injections after the radiotherapy?

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    Heinous

    If I can't beat this, I'm going for the draw.

    Meanwhile, my priority is to live while I have the option.

  • Hi Gills123

    Vert sorry for what is happening in your life, my wife and I send our sincere condolences, A lot of miss diagnosis happening there, mistakes all round, I remember when I was told, I had just moved house and medical practice within three months of changing and less than a month when joining the practice, they found my incurable PC. I accepted that but was very annoyed with the other practice for not picking it up, as I had lots of blood tests taken even with all I told them, tried taking it to court but no one took the case, probably too scared of losing so if ever your thinking of this, make sure you have lots of evidence on your side.

    Your score are reasonable and can be treated maybe not cured, but you have plenty of years ahead, make sure you ask for all documents of meetings and scans etc, you can do the same from your doctor. I keep mine so I can ask questions when I see the oncologist again, like what’s the plan of treatment and is there a plan B, ( my wife’s favourite saying ) all this keeps you informed of how your treatments are going.

    Again very sorry about your wife, but keep positive, you need to have these treatments.

    Stay safe

    Joe