My husband won't talk to anyone and our sex life is non existent. Last time we tried, he has to pump it then put on ring before entering mexbut it both put me off and him and I couldn't relax as he is only allowed to have ring on for max 30 minutes. It is very off-putting. How do people cope and is there any advice please. I am feeling very depressed and angry at him because he doesn't want to know and won't talk to anyone to get advice and try. He keeps forgetting things and I have to continually repeat myself and he is not wanting to so much amd getting grumpy..I think he is holding his feelings in and getting depressed but he just won't ask for advice or talk!
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