Well it’s dads mri scan tomorrow please can we all pray he goes and gets this done once and for all !!! He’s had a rocky few days and been in a lot of pain, if he doesn’t go I really don’t no what we can do next ………...
the morphine he is taking isn’t agreeing with him for one it wipes him of this earth and for 2 he has no idea how to even take it properly , so instead of taking what is required he will just gulp it and then he’s flat out all day not eating and completely not with it !
tomorrow is the day , the big question is
does he have spinal cord compression??
and will they start him on something for his cancer asap
Chloe x
Good morning Disneylandb3ad46
the ambulance personnel will have been told how fragile your dad is . They will make him as comfortable as possible . Don’t push your dad to get dressed . He can go in his pyjamas . The main thing is that he gets there .
will be thinking if you & your dad tomorrow . Please let us know how it goes .
best wishes & hugs
Liz & OH xx
I’m going to say to dad he can go in what ever he wants as long as I can get him in that hospital I will be one happy daughter , it’s vital now that we get this scan because if he doesn’t , well I don’t no what else we can do honestly because he needs treatment and help asap ! X
he’s already missed 2 , one due to a mess about with the hospital transport and the other due to him having a meltdown and refusing
yes start preparing him today saying they have advised he’s to go comfortable as the ambulance people will make sure he’s warm if he’s in his pj’s . Just keep talking and express how important it is for him to attend as the consultant will then do his work to make him feel better and hopefully pain free .
you need to also take care of yourself .
Liz xx
Thankyou , I’ve spent most of my Christmas with dad , I feel like he picks up alot when I’m there and I push food and fluids when I can , if I’m not there he only has a carer in the morning , so it’s a difficult one , but in jan he’s having another visit at 4.30 for a cup of tea etc I’m hoping after all this tomorrow they decide what there doing next
they can’t just leave him in bed like this surely, I wouldn’t let me dog live like this x
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