Hi , a while since I wrote on the forum , Eddie is now 83 and sadly in a nursing home , ( a specialist care centre) , he was taken there from hospital after a really bad UTI and I was advised that due to his aggressive behaviour it was best he didn't come home as I would be at risk , if you remember he also as advanced alzimers as well as metastatic prostrate cancer , I am at the moment paying for his care at £2000 a week ( it’s a lovely home ,but sadly that’s the only one at the time that would take him Due to the behaviour) and 6 months on he is settled there , my problem is thus , I can probably continue paying for another 6 months , but then what will happen ? When the money runs out ,,,, will they move him ,,,?
Hello Gena (Gena7)
I am sorry to read your post although as you say it's probably the best place for Eddie and as he's settled then yes and "it's a lovely home too".
I think I know the answer to your question but you are better speaking to the experts who may wish to ask you some personal financial questions so:
You could post your question here in "Ask an information and support adviser":
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I do hope you get the information you need.
Best wishes - Brian.

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Hi Gina ,
Hope you are doing ok as it’s life changing when your partner needs additional care .
First and foremost you need to speak to his Social Worker who has undertaken his assessment and they will advise as many care homes will accept those who are funded by local authority ( that’s what happens in Scotland ) .
take care & hugs
Liz & OH xxx
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