This might sound daft. The wife and me are looking to adopt a rescue cat so we're perusing local cat sanctuary websites today. A few of the descriptions for kittens said things like "if you feel able to commit for 15+ years..") and I got quite tearful wondering if I will be here in 15 years due to the PC (I'm 65). It passed quickly. Wife assured me that no matter what happens, we will be giving an animal a safe home. I don't often think like that, it was just the timescale. Feeling better now.
I know what you mean
i had a similar thought when I had to buy a new light bulb for a lamp
The box the bulb came in said the bulb had an expected 15 year lifespan.
”Outlived by a lightbulb” I thought. Made me feel quite sad
BTW - the bulb lasted 12 months until I had to replace it so you never know
beating a lightbulb cheered me up - you have to take the little wins
Hello Beerandrocks
It's a natural thing to think about mortality as we get older and with cancer, yes it's always there.
It's not always the Prostate Cancer that gets you - 98% of men with Prostate Cancer die WITH it not OF it and don't forget we all have to go sometime!!
I would take your wife's spin on it - you are giving a cat a new chance at life and looking after the cat will give you pleasure and something to look forward to - indeed it will stimulate the positive attitude you need in this life.
Go for it - think of that kitten.
Best wishes - Brian.
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Brilliant!
