lm not sure how I'm feeling

Good Morning Doreen Doreenw 

I am sorry to read you aren't feeling the best this morning - if you would like to expand on it I will se what I can do for you.

Our Support Line on 0808 808 00 00 (8am to 8pm 7 days a week) is open now for you - give them a call - there are some lovely people working there and they are happy to help.

Best wishes - Brian

iv try them before and i didn't find them helpful 

Hello Doreen (Doreenw) 

I am so sorry to read this - please do give them another go - if you let me know what your problem is I will see what I can do for you. (I will be off line for an hour but back before lunch). If it helps my private message box is open.

Best wishes - brian.

 Doreenw , if you are able to give us a little more info perhaps we can help?  David

Hello Doreen Doreenw . I have been on this journey with my husband for 4+ years. Some days I go along fine and then for no reason I get the wobbles. We have the highs when the cancer is under control and we have a good PSA test and then the lows when we know that another round of treatment is going to be needed. I have learnt that these feelings are normal but what is more difficult is learning the coping strategies and to just accept that what will be will be and there is nothing I can do about it apart from keeping my husband as fit as possible both mentally and physically. It is also important to carry on doing what I enjoy and not feel guilty about it. We do spend a lot more time together going out for a coffee, ice cream or a meal and invariably start talking to others. We are making the most of whatever time we have left because we know that with the 'incurable' but treatable diagnosis then it is probably not going to be as long as we had originally planned. Initially fear was a major emotion, fear of losing my husband and being left alone, fear of whether I will be able to cope, fear that he will be in pain. I have learnt that we are a lot stronger than we think but if we need help we must ask as no one knows what help you need - they are not mind readers. We have reached a balance which we are both happy living with but it has involved a few home truths at times. Don't forget, you are not superwoman.

Is it just the ups and downs of being on this journey that you are having a problem with or is there something specific?

im not sure it could be that i had cancer but now I don't i went into full blown menopause s i was i over the place i dai to the doctor i fill im going mad they put me on hrt gell i still get hot fluers and i felt down early i saw a friend she went home agfer we had lunch so i brought some things and I walk to the carsal ground s hope you understand me 

Thank you Doreenw 

I think you need to arrange a GP appointment tomorrow-that’s the best way forward.

if you are still feeling ill today I would ring 111.

Best wishes - Brian

i called them last week im feeling better than I was i mett up with a friend then when she went home i Went to the  grends for a walk 

Hello Doreen (Doreenw )

Thats great you are getting out and about. Keep it up meeting friends and exercise is good for us all.

Best wishes - Brian.