I have a date for my RALP, 2 weeks! It's come a little quicker than I'd thought and looking for advice. I am anxious about the catheter to begin with. What tends to be provided on discharge? I'm considering getting some sort of fixation device? Has anyone used these or do you tend to leave hospital with one?
I'm thinking I'll leave hospital with catheter bags etc so not sure what else will be helpful, apart from kegels, baggy pants, laxatives and a bucket!
Any advice on what might be useful will be gratefully accepted.
Thank you
Robert
Brilliant to read of your recovery. You have tracked my Journey somewhat. Although I had to wait 6 weeks and chase the GP to obtain the pump and Sildenafil (Viagra) 6 months on and no natural erections yet, but I consider that a long term project Yes we obviously have watched the same video, keep doing the Penile push ups
That's the impression I get. The long haul as opposed to a short one. YouTube is a fountain of knowledge but still not sure if I'm doing it right. I get a better response on tablet day but if I attempt the real thing it will be like trying to put a marshmallow in a slot machine!
I attempt the real thing it will be like trying to put a marshmallow in a slot machine!
That my friend made me laugh out loud - if only the other 20 passengers on the bus knew what I was reading!!
Carry on, you are doing so well!!
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Recovery continues. I'm walking most days and the dragging feeling I had post surgery has pretty much gone. Much improved by swapping out pads for tens underpants. Much more comfortable. I've had a few Guinness and a couple of glasses of a very nice red wine with no apparent I'll effect.
I still wake for wee's during the night. Maybe 3-4 times. Be nice if that reduces! The most I have passed in one go has been approx 300ml. Mostly around 150-200ml. The cystoscopy indicated some stiffening if the bladder wall which could be a factor. I'll work on it.
I've had a few nights without a pad and been dry which is pleasing. To be honest I think I've been dry at night from the start but difficult to be sure when wearing a pad. Pump exercises continue and I see the rep next week. Hopefully will feel clearer on the process after that. I have a couple of trips away planned. Hand luggage only. I'm wondering if a week without pumping will be unhelpful? Not sure I could cope with airport security pulling it out!
Surgeon appointment 7 October and my wife will allow me to start driving from Friday. She's been a stickler for the post op instructions.
Take care all.
Hello RAS1961
Another brilliant positive post - keep going you are doing really well. Enjoy the trips away - it shows that life is returning to normal.
She's been a stickler for the post op instructions.
She's doing right too - instructions are there for a reason - well done Mrs Ras1961!! Take a bow!
I hope all goes well with your appointment on 7 October - Thanks for the update.
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