My husband Pete had his Radical Robotic Prostatectomy on Wednesday 10th July - I have documented the last 48 hrs - it may help anyone who is due to have their own surgery but I understand everyone is different 
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The operation was described as successful but tricky - and he was in surgery for 5.5 hrs This was due to there being a lot of damage and scar tissue from the continuous infections which Pete had over the past year ( and uro sepsis in April). They have removed the prostate and also lymph nodes from both sides.
Post surgery Pete was taken to recovery and monitored very closely - he was understandably very sleepy / groggy though I managed to say hi to him via FaceTime about 20.30pm
it was a very worrying day as we expected him to be in surgery for around 3 hrs - I ended up phoning hospital at 4pm as I hadn’t had any updates and I knew Pete had gone for surgery at 9am- it was then I found out why he hadn’t contacted me as planned xx
After spending Wednesday night on hourly observations in recovery he was transferred to the ward yesterday morning (11 July) and encouraged to have a walk .
He was in a great deal of pain / discomfort and has pain relief to alleviate this
Pete has a catheter in place as expected and this is going to be in for two weeks
At 17.00pm yesterday 11th July Pete was discharged home. The nurse gave him information regarding catheter care , medication and emergency contact numbers
It was very difficult for him walking from Ward to the car - but he slowly did it !!!!
My personal view - I was surprised that 26 hrs after a 5.5hr op he was being discharged - 
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Pete was given night catheter bags to manage himself , and a weekly change for the day bag
He was given codeine and paracetamol for pain , and senna and lactulose for bowel management as often post operatively bowel movement can be an issue
Pete also has to have a daily sub cutaneous injection of enoxaparin to minimise risk of clots. He doesn’t like the thought of giving this to himself so I will be doing it
He also has to wear support stockings
Pete had a fairly good nights sleep and only woke twice with discomfort
This morning (12th July) he was able to have a short shower .
His mobility is slow and uncomfortable but he is having a short walk hourly as recommended - The catheter is flowing well and Pete is drinking plenty of clear fluids - he has lost his appetite - though managing small amounts
Pete will be seen for trial without catheter in two weeks and have bloods in 5 weeks for first check of PSA level. He will be seen in six weeks by the consultant with results from biopsy from what they have removed during his operation
love to you all on your own cancer journey
Jean ️
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Hello Jean (Mrsjmb)
Thanks very much for the up to date report. It all sounds great and I do hope Pete makes a speedy recovery, however I agree - his discharge from hospital would appear to have been very quick.
It's great you are documenting his journey as this helps others who are or are thinking about surgery.
If either of you need anything remember we as a Community are here for both of you. Don't forger to have some "me" time yourself.
Best wishes - Brian.
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Hello Jean, I fully recognise that this will have been a week of great stress for you both but I hope that you’ve had a good night’s sleep and can now work towards getting Pete back to peak fitness and that you are relieved that the op is over and done with.
I do wish Pete a quick recovery and hope too that he is the model patient for you! 
Re rapid discharge. This is, I suspect, prompted by two facts. First and hopefully foremost, patients do, as David says, recover better at home than in hospital. Second, the sooner patients leave hospital, the quicker the next patient on the waiting list can be treated.
as a retired registered nurse, I remember the days when patients undergoing appendicectomy or hernia repair were kept in hospital for 10 days!!!! Patients having hip replacements were kept in bed for 3 weeks!!! Of course, surgical techniques and medical expertise etc were not so advanced as these days and, in the East End of London when I was doing my nurse training, people’s home conditions could often be suboptimal.
best of luck to you both!
