Hi all. I would just like to ask how the OHs cope with their oh's fatigue. Mine has started on Enzalutamide and it seems every time he sits down he sleeps. He tries to keep a bit busy by going to golf 3 times a week, very early in the morning but seems to spend the rest of the day dozing. We are 2 years into our Prostate cancer journey and we already know that it is incurable, (metastatic carcinoma of the prostate, T3b, N1, M1b, Gleason 4+5, grade group 5.) I'm trying to stay positive but if after only 2 rounds of Enzalutamide he is this sleepy, I can only see it getting worse. He is also waiting for a TURP operation but hasn't heard anything from the hospital.
Jane
We have 50 acres and 150 sheep and 4 horses and there is just my wife and I. There is a lot of work. I wake up feeling great at 6.30 am and get up. Do my jobs and have some chocolate and go for a nap for 1 to 2 hours at 2pm get up at 4 and sit down at tv with a glass of wine and watch the chase and then have dinner. Bed at 9pm .its the new norm
We have to adjust to the nee norm. For me sleeping all the time is not an option. Try experimenting and get ideas from the other posts on all the forums. When I have done my jobs in the morning I have a hot shower and then have lunch. Normally honey and yogurt. Then I do some paperwork and make some phone calls all this seems to give me temporary boosts of energy. I now try to avoid actually sleeping during the day so that I sleep well at night
I have a fitbit watch which records my vital signs and let's me know how many steps I do a day. I can record my water intake 2 litres a day helps
I compete with my wife over the steps I do. I try and aim for 12000
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