My husband was diagnosed with Prostrate cancer 6 weeks ago. His Psa was 84.7 He has a Gleason score of 9 and it has spread to the lymph nodes nearest to the pelvis, the top of his hip and the back of one of his ribs. He has been taking hormone tablets and had a hormone injection, thankfully he has had no side effects so far.
We saw the cancer specialist on Friday and we have been given two choices the first being that he can take a tablet Apalutaminde four x daily at the same time for the rest of his life along with radio therapy into the prostrate or 5 months of chemotherapy and radiotherapy into the prostrate. I am quite confused because i have read in the official prostrate cancer website that the tablet is used when it has not spread. I am also worried about the side effects if we go down the tablet for life route.
Does anyone have any experience of either?
Thank you
Unfortunately this is treatment not cure. That said if you react well to the HT it can be many years before they need to think about different treatment options. There are new treatments coming on-line all the time so I try not to dwell on that too much (although sometimes it can be quite hard).
I am not sure of the specific side-effects of Apalutaminde but in general with HT you can get a lot of fatigue - I reduced my work to 4 days to give myself extra time to re-energise. There is also the loss of libido - for us that side of life has completely disappeared but it is the price we have to pay.
Steve
Reading this again I think if want to do chemo before tablets that is also fine. The tablets are effective with the main side effects being fatigue and possibly bone density. They buy a year or more of progression free cancer Once they fail however there is little chance of going back. Whereas there are other chemo options.
My diagnosis is simular to your husband (see my profile) because of covid I was put on monthly hormone injections and enzalutamide tablets which brought psa down to 0.007. I agree with everything steveB said the treatment does cause fatigue and hot flushes but I still have a social life. My oncologist said this is a expensive treatment and that I've got chemo and radiotherapy in his back pocket when the tablets stop working. Hope everything goes well for your husband. Ivor.
Thank you for your reply. I have read your story. I can’t believe how many men have got PC There are some positive stories which are very reassuring.
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