Hi in 4 weeks after a hospital admission my mum has gone downhill fast. She hasn’t eaten for 3 weeks only sipping water and the occasional cup of tea. Lost all bowl control and the diarrhoea is horrendous for her. She has lost 2 stone in weight. She knows she is dying and wants to be at home so myself and daughter in law are caring for her but it’s definitely taking its toll. We are lifting her from her to bed to a wheelchair to the toilet. She can’t walk and has had numerous falls trying to. Sometimes she seems quite bright. How bad do I sound when I think you have had enough mum just go to sleep. She has always been my best friend and I love her so much but this is so dam hard
