Still getting used to saying it out loud

Hi, 

on 13th July I was diagnosed with stage 3c ovarian cancer. No real symptoms other than bloated belly which I put down to menopause, hence the late  presentation, which is typical of this type of cancer. 

I was only diagnosed after I had some urinary issues. The masses (one on each ovary & quite large) were pushing down on my bladder. 

I had a radical hysterectomy on 14th August. On 30th September I had the first cycle of 6 of chemotherapy. 
My next cycle starts next Monday. 

its been a whirlwind, but things have moved very quickly. None of my major organs seem affected. 

xx

Morning Eekoh, so sorry to read about your diagnosis. I was diagnosed 3c OC in January and can relate to the whirlwind of tests and scans at the start. I had minimal symptoms too so the diagnosis was a big shock. I would say don’t google, but I know many of us do. So much of the information is out of date and scary. If you are searching I would suggest sticking to macmillian or sites such as ovacome or target ovarian cancer that specialise in OC. Nine months on from my diagnosis I’ve had chemo , surgery, chemo and now on maintenance. Pleased to say at this time there is no evidence of disease. It’s been tough , but to be honest all doable. It’s amazing what can be done. Take care and hope biopsy goes ok tomorrow. X

I totally relate to what you are saying. When I was diagnosed a year ago and said the words I have cancer, I always felt that I was saying it about a cardboard cut out who looked exactly like me, not about me. As the weeks passed and the news sank in the two personas merged. I also found it helpful that the treatment plan wasn’t rushed as it gave my husband and I time to adjust  to this new situation.

You are not alone in hoping for the hysterectomy, I too was happy for anything that removed this tumour from my body. Given I was post menopausal my womb wasn’t serving any purpose in any case ️. 

the build up of Ascites was what caused me the greatest discomfort so it is a relief to have it drained and, as you say, be able to eat normally and not feel sick. 

In wish you well with the treatment plan and a full recovery. 

Hi Eekoh

i feel for you, I went through all of this in the last 10 months. It is a long hard road but you will get there. Enjoy getting the fluid drained as the relief is instant, I had 8 litres the first time I was drained! Best of luck and remember you’re not alone x