Ovarian cancer dr not helping?

Hi everyone new here. I need advise as I’m scared out of my wits. I’m 31 with two small children. Since the start of the year I had been having occasional lower right abdominal pain which I thought was ovulation pains (so did my dr) but over the past 7-8 weeks it has been a constant ache in my lower right abdomen right hip and lower right back I also have a lump sticking out of my lower back which the dr “thinks” is normal. I’ve also ended up in a&e with the pain and again said there was nothing they could do as all they had was covid wards. I called nhs 24 they sent me to hosp incase it was appendicitis which it wasn’t as I expected he said it was defo gynae related and said he would send me for an urgent pelvic scan within to weeks (spoke to my dr since and she said she can’t see that) although I should mention that about 6 weeks before that I paid for a private vaginal ultrasound which showed more folicles than there should be but that shouldn’t be causing my pain anyway Called my dr again (at this point I’ve been doing so on a weekly basis) all they either say is take these painkillers take these antidepressants or go and speak to the mental health team. What I’m also experiencing is the fact that my period has stopped as well as all the pain I haven’t had a period since the start of august (which is 7 weeks ago) which is unusual for me and obviously really scary. With my symptoms surely that should merit an urgent referral? Back at the start they asked gynae to urgent it and they said no just go on the pill. At this point it will be months before I even get an appt by that tome who knows what damage will be done. My dr ordered me a ca125 boood on my request but she said she doesn’t think I should do it as it can be high for other radon’s and that still won’t make my investigations any quicker and if it is high then my anxiety will be a whole lot worse but surely with my pains, period stopping and a high ca125 I should be seen for further testing? I just don’t understand what’s happening and why no one will take it seriously enough. I feel like I am struggling mentally and physically and nowhere to turn. I need advise as my drs just aren’t listening. Plus I’ve spoken to 3 different ones