Mums diagnosis

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Hi all, I'm here to get some support and advice for my mum. My mum has been quite poorly since Christmas 2019, she had numerous chest infections since and every time was prescribed antibiotic. Then in March out of the blue she experienced what we thought was sciatica, she made several trips to her gp and had blood tests. The gp adviced that my mum take pain relief and do stretches and movements to help with her sciatica. Two weeks later my mum started to become breathless regularly, and became so ill that she was taken to hospital on oxygen. Whilst in hospital she has many tests and scans, she was tested for coronavirus which initially came back negative. After a chest x-ray and moreblood tests my mum was moved to a side room where they wanted to so another coronovirus test, the test this time came back positive! On top of this they found fluid on both lungs. The followong day my mum had both lungs drained, they found a litre of fluid on each lung and diagnosed double covid pneumonia. The next day my mum spoke to the Drs on the ward who sent her for a ct scan, from this they found cancer in one of her ovaries. This was a huge shock! And I am absolutely gutted! I'm so scared andworried for my mum. She is now home and still struggling with her breathing, we are hoping that this slowly improves and then we can deal with the cancer. We should hear in the next week from the medical team about my mums diagnosis and any treatments she may be offered. We are working so hard as a family to support my mum and look after ourselves too. I wondered if anyone had similar experience or advice to help my mum during this tough time.  I suffer with mental health and am finding this time very difficult, look forward to hearing from you all and to hearing your experiences. Thank you for listening and taking the time to read my post :) 

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    Hi, your poor Mum has been through a rough time.  Hopefully, her lungs and breathing will soon improve.  As for the cancer diagnosis, it is such a shock and we all go through a lot of emotions, anger, denial, shock etc.  I was diagnosed last November and have just finished chemo.  I am now on a maintenance drug and awaiting surgery when this virus is sorted, and feel really well.  Treatment usually involves 6 chemo's and surgery usually half way through.  I found chemo OK, the worse being the loss of my hair, which should start growing back soon.  Fear of the unknown is the worse, but the care and support I have received has been second to none.  There are many of us doing really well and with positive stories on here and Ovacome.  And look after yourself too.  I'm sure your Mum will be worried for you aswell.  Any questions, please ask.  Jan. x.

  • I’m so sorry to hear of your mums health issues, it must all be a shock for all of you.

    I wish your mum a rapid recovery from the virus. Once she is better I am sure there will be a  plan out in place to get her better.

    I finished treatment in October, everyone’s journey is different but I didn’t find it too bad. There were days when it felt hard but on the whole, it was ok.

    Take care of your Mum, but also recognise the impact this has on you. I supported my Mum through breast cancer 10 years ago, (She’s still good and strong.) and my partner through tongue, throat and neck cancer 3 years ago (He is in fine health now too). It is hard to deal with it all, in my experience you are one of the people closest to them so on bad days you may be the one to get it! You feel a bit like you’ve disappeared as the first thing people ask is “How’s your mum?” Find some good friends to confide in and keep strong and positive.

    There are plenty of us survivors out here. There are plenty of people living and being treated. It’s not all doom and gloom!

    Sending lots of love and well wishes to you, your mum and your family xxx

    If the plan doesn't work, change the plan but never the goal!
  • I am so sorry to hear about your mum's illness.To have Coronavirus and all the symptoms that go along with not to mention now having the devistating news of having Cancer!! My heart goes out to your entire family.Its an awful shock being told you have cancer when your prepared for the diagnosis.But it's a real big shock when your told you have it and didn't expect it.I for one should know as I have had cancer twice and am now fully recovered and now in remission.It will be a long and bumpy road ahead.But first things first to get your mum well enough to be able to physically and mentally deal with what lays ahead of you all as a family.Hope your mum recovers soon.Take care CD41 xx

    CD41