Feeling down after diagnosis

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Started feeling unwell in September with pains in my stomach, Doctor referred me for a second opinion as he thought it might be diverticulitis. In February I saw a consultant and then things really moved quit quickly. From CT scans to endoscopies, X rays, ultrasounds more CT scans etc and then biopsies.

I have been diagnosed with Stage 4 Ovarian Cancer. I also have a blood clot in my arm and fluid build up in my lungs which I have to have drained ever a couple of weeks. I am going for y third drain today.

I am on a plan for 6 cycles of Chemo followed hopefully by an operation to remove some of the tumours in my stomach.

My husband has incurable oesophagus cancer and has just finished chemo and radiotherapy to see if they can give him more time. My husband has been very positive about his treatment and the future and outwardly I am too as he is doing well, but am finding it harder to be positive about my own cancer. I think it is partly to do with the Doctor who first told me I had cancer, she didn’t paint a very rosy picture said I wouldn’t be able to have an operation, that I shouldn’t be resuscitated as I would not be given a ventilator as it would be pointless. I felt I only had a few months left. My oncologist on the other gave me hope and said I could have a few years of a good quality of life.

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    FormerMember

    Hi, I was diagnosed in November with high grade 3-4 OC.  I had to be drained  three times and had a small amount of fluid in my lungs plus tiny blood clots.  I now have blood thinning injections every night which has virtually cleared up the lungs.  Chemo no. 2 sorted out the fluid in the stomach problems.  I have now had 5 chemo's and feel fine.  Surgery is on hold until the CV crisis is over.  I was also told a few years, but there are many ladies out there which are doing well.  Positive mind and good diet and a lot of reading, which I'm sure you probably have done on your husband's behalf.  Any questions, please ask.  Jan. x.

  • I’m Sorry for everything you are going through. My Mum was diagnosed with stage 4 ovarian cancer in December. She has had 3 cycles of chemo, ( she’s 75) carbo, taxol and Avastin - she had a scan 2 weeks ago, and they were really pleased that the cancer has shrunk to a stage 3 - and is  now operable. I just wanted to tell you this, so you have some hope! She can’t have an op at the moment - as the risk of Covid-19 is high, so they have said, 2 more chemo and then hopefully the op in 6 weeks time. I hope everything works out for you and your husband. Sending you love x