Hello, I was diagnosed with Myelofibrosis a year ago after having had Polycethemia for 26years and taking Hydroxycarbamide to keep it under control which enabled me to lead a normal life enjoying long distance walking. Then in Feb 2019 I developed severe pains in my legs and could barely walk. I ended up having a third operation on my back which didn't really help and I tried to carry on with pain killers until I could bare it no more.
18 months ago I moved to be by the sea and have a new haematologist who is brilliant and diagnosed the MF. I'm on various medications including Ruxolitinib, morphine and just started weekly injections of Darbepoetin. At last the pain is under control, I feel very weary at times and sadly am unable to walk more than half a mile without being exhausted but it's worth it to be pain free.
I have lots of help and support and now I have Attendance Allowance I can afford a cleaner and monthly aromatherapy massages.
So my message to other sufferers is don't be afraid to ask for help and don't feel guilty about resting. It's easier for me as I live by myself but I need to be aware not to shut myself away as it can be an effort to contact friends at times.
Hi again Mumskaya and well done getting your post up.
I help out around our blood cancer groups. I don't have Myelofibrosis but I was diagnosed way back in 1999 at 43 years old with another rare, incurable type of Non Hodgkin’s Lymphoma (also MF but Mycosis Fungodes) eventually reaching Stage 4a in late 2013 so I do know this journey rather well although not necessarily some of the treatments you are on
Lets look for any MF group members to pick up on your post. There are a number of active group members at the moment so why not click on the main ‘Main Group’ title and this will bring up all the group posts. Have a look at the posts and as always you can hit reply to any post and connect in with the wider group conversations.
You may also want to check to see if you have a Maggie's Centre in your area as these folks are amazing and most centres do run monthly Heamatology Support Groups….. the one I attend does have a few folks with Myelofibrosis in it so worth checking.
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Hello Mumskaya,
sorry to hear of your suffering. I was diagnosed with MF three years ago and until recently was on “watch and wait”. You said that you had recently moved to live by the sea. I also live surrounded by ocean and while I have difficulty walking on terra firma I find it easy to walk waist high in the ocean. Not knowing your circumstances or location are you able to exercise in the water?, so much easier on the body.
best wishes,
Nagus.
Hello Naugus,
I don't feel up to going in the sea as it is very cold here but I have a swimming pool nearby which I am hoping to get back to exercising in ... I am just recovering from a bout of shingles so am still feeling very weak.
I hope you continue to find the benefit of the ocean, I find just watching it and listening to it very healing..
Thank you, Mike for your encouragement.
I have read your story .. wow! you have really been through the mill but still sounding very positive.
At the moment I'm having support from a psychologist but when this course finishes I will check out the cancer support group in the area which meets once a week.
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