Hi, last Friday I was diagnosed with Neuroendocrine cancer. My primary tumour (well differentiated)is 60mm in my small bowel and I have four deposits on my liver. I was told at my appointment they would not do surgery to remove my primary and that they would most likely treat my liver mets with chemotherapy first. I’m assuming as they told me this my case must have been reviewed at the MDT. When leaving the appointment I was told I would be contacted by the oncology team most definitely this week to meet and discuss next steps. I didn’t ask many questions on the day and after reading about this condition I have lots. My main worry which is causing me a lot of anxiety is the large primary tumour. If it’s so large isn’t there a chance of it perforating? No one has been in touch and it’s now a week tomorrow since I had the news. I’m terrified and need my mind put at rest so I can sleep. Has anyone had a similar diagnosis and what is the average time for me to receive my next appointment. I live in Scotland and attend Ninewells hospital in Dundee. Any advice would be very much appreciated.
I’m new to all of this but I’m learning to fight my husbands corner…but never forgetting to be polite and appreciative of the NHS staff. We initially waited patiently for some contact after a scan…..a big mistake! So now if I have any niggles or questions I phone the designated nurse. Hopefully you too have been given details of one. Yesterday I phoned…got an answer and again today. Although I didn’t quite get the answers I wanted at least my questions have been asked and if things get delayed needlessly there is a record of my contact. We are waiting for a biopsy appointment..a week now so on Tuesday I will phone to ask question if we haven’t heard. Although patience is needed, we have learnt the hard way that sometimes a time limit must be drawn. Hopefully you can contact someone and at least get reassurance.
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