Hi all. Recently diagnosed and feeling very confused.
Told I will need treatment but not yet.
Feel like a fraud. Told close family I have cancer in my bone Marrow but then don't need treatment???
Am I ill or not???
My back is bad but MRI scan didn't show much.
Bone Marrow biopsy said 20% Myeloma in my Marrow.
Sooo confused.
Can anyone help me process this.
HI THC this is Vespa, AKA Kevin, i have MM in remission right now, but still on treatment, Maintenance, it is a shock, and i am not a health care professional, but the very positive thing is it is picked up early, and with MM diagnosis, this is not often the case, you are NOT a fraud, the prospect can be daunting, and i am sure you have researched MM.? all i can say is the treatment DVTB i had in the last 12 months and subsequent SCT harvest and Transplant has been difficult at times, but worth all the effort, from constant blood tests, and appointments, lucky or not, my diagnosis was on my 66th birthday and my retirement day, not what i planned to do with my spare time! but the alternative is not an option, please share your thoughts with people close to you, MM and other blood cancers are not as well known as other targeted cancers, so you may have to explain what is happening to your blood, bones and body, and trust in the NHS Kevin
So sorry to here this cannot really give any answers on what the specialists advise
I was diagnosed in feb my bone marrow showed 92 % i was told this was one of the biggest they had seen I also had a sore back still have this was due to fractures in my back started a trial the only thing is to go with what the specialist say and the help uou will be given.
Hi
Sorry to hear this BUT I can completely empathise
I was diagnosed with Smouldering Myeloma in December 2022 It was such a shock as it was detected completely by accident from a random blood test. I had never even heard of Myeloma!
So here I am 18 months later still Smouldering, I had bloods and a follow on consultation up till last month when they then moved it 3 months.
You are so right about telling people (especially my employer) that I have cancer but I do not need treatment, yet ! I feel like they thinking “what ! “
So, my thoughts are with you and will hold you in my prayers
Hi, I was diagnosed with myeloma last August, no symptoms, picked up routinely at GPs. I am being seen between two hospitals one hospital have said I’m smouldering the other stage one. My BMB showed 35% myeloma cells, my light chains go between 120-400, these are checked monthly. The MRI was clear of any lesions last October. Initially I was told they would jump in with treatment but I haven’t started anything yet. Like you, I was also perplexed and have researched this and still not really clarified how my treatment will progress going forward. I feel I am definitely stage one, not smouldering as the information out there seems to be if you have more than 10% myeloma cells on BMB and/or more than 100 light chains but no lesions you are stage one. I feel I am constantly waiting for the axe to fall. I’m not sure if this helps you or if someone better than me could explain how they stage this disease and why, sometimes, they wait and see. Good luck to everyone who is battling the same illness.
Thank you for responding.
Feeling like the axe could fall any minute is exactly how I feel. Constantly on edge.
I care for my mother who is 89 and suffers from dementia. Worried about how long I will be able to continue to do this. Can anyone give me an insight about how I will feel when treatment does start.
I now feel as though I am talking to people who understand.
Hi THc , sorry to hear your story and I can really understand how you are feeling because your story is similar to mine but 6 years apart .I was diagnosed with MGUS / Smoldering Myeloma 6 years ago .it was a total shock , turns the world spinning and spiralling out of control . Hang on in there though you are , I expect in the watch and wait routine. I had 3 monthly blood tests and a chat for all those years until I developed full blown Myeloma Aug 22 .Had all the treatment and a Stem cell transplant April 23 . I am now in remission .It's a long journey and it's not easy asking for support but just do it ( if you can ) .Once I asked for support life became easier .
Have you been given the name and contact details of a specialist nurse yet. If you have think about making contact and talk to Him / her about how you are feeling .You are not a fraud x MacMillan and Maggies centres also give good advice and are great listeners
Wishing you all the very best and keep in touch with how you are feeling and getting on .
Best wishes Sue
Cakie
Thank you for responding.
I was found to have MGUS 13 years ago. I thought if it had not progressed to Myeloma after 10 years it was unlikely to.
Obviously wrong info.
I am being checked every 2 months at present.
Just feeling confused at the moment and very worried.
You are not a fraud.
i was diagnosed with SM before Christmas and it took me months to understand the level of Myeloma I had
i now have numerous blood test every 3 months to assess if the disease has progressed. With no obvious symptoms I am totally reliant on my consultant to give me guidance I t is impossible to assess your own progress it is hard to be relaxed before every 3 monthly appointment but we just have to meet the challenge
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