Hi , I've just had this devastating diagnosis. I can't think how I came into contact with asbestos. I'm waiting for an appointment with an oncologist. Feeling so alone. Was just getting back to a way of life after caring for my husband with Motor Neurone Disease and who died 2021. I just can't believe this is happening.
I started to feel unwell at the end of May and got blood tests that came back normal. I went private to get seen quicker for an ultrasound and results came back with fluid like a cyst in my appendix area and CT scan was advised. I was thinking, that's ok if it's a cyst. I decided again to go private as waiting times would be many weeks. The CT scan showed unusual thickening of that area and I was then sent out an appointment with NHS for discussion with consultant. At this appointment no images of my scan were available so no further forward in what it was. Had to wait until they had these. I was then referred for a PET scan and this showed up a thickened mass but also some small nodules in my abdomen. Discussion we're taking place at MDT meetings with the consultant.
Eventually received the diagnosis nearly 4 months after my first GP appt and I'm completely devastated. I'm not sure what stage this is at and will have to wait for the oncologists appointment, hopefully this week.
I've always been a very active, outgoing person. Loved running when I was younger and walking and have rescued 4 lurcher dogs along the way. Always busy. Loved gardening and helping with our local floral arrangements around the town. I now don't want to go out unless taking the dog in the car and away from busy areas so I don't have to speak to anyone.
Sorry for the negativity but I never dreamt in a million years that I would be in such a nightmare.
Hi Siss, so sorry to hear about your diagnosis and also about your husband, life can be so cruel and I understand how you are feeling. my previously healthy daughter was diagnosed with MS at 28 two years ago, then a year later again my previously healthy husband was diagnosed with pleural mesothelioma. I hope you get all the help and support you need if you contact action on asbestos they will help you.my husband is doing ok at the moment McMillan nurses have been great at advice on his medication .
I thought when we were going through lockdown 2020 with no help and caring for my husband with MND, that would be the worst it could possibly get but this is on another planet and now I don't have him here to help get me through this.
It must be doubly awful for you.
I've contacted Action on Asbestos as you advised and wait for them to contact me. I'm off to Maggie's Ctre this afternoon.
Thankyou so much for your support. I do have a friend with a terminal prognosis with Ovarian Cancer and she has been such a positive voice too throughout these 4 months of waiting for a diagnosis.
Wishing you a good day and your family. Thankyou Bey x
Hi Siss, Sorry you have had this horrible news. I was diagnosed with peritoneal mesothelioma four years ago and the first few days after diagnosis were the worst for me. My case was referred to Basingstoke for review as they have a specialist team there. Sam Westbrook is the Mesothelioma UK peritoneal mesothelioma nurse there and she is fantastic. I recommend contacting her or asking your oncologist to refer you. Mesothelioma UK have been a great source of support to me. There is a great community out there- you are not alone. Wishing you all the best x
Ah- glad it sounds like they were talking about referring you. Once I was aware of the Basingstoke team it was a real relief to me. Sam runs a great monthly zoom meeting as well and I'm sure you can get in touch with her via the Meso UK or Basingstoke websites. Please feel free to ask me if you want a patient's perspective on anything x
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