How longs a piece of string?

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Hi all. I know this question probably doesn't have an answer but looking for other people's experience I suppose. My Dad has already defied all the odds after being diagnosed with pleural mesothelioma almost 3 years ago. All treatment was stopped over 6 months ago and he's now on palliative care. He can still manage most everyday tasks (getting up, dressed, washed etc) although he gets out of breath and struggles - but he can't manage much more. In recent weeks his energy levels have plummeted and he's not eating much, consistent dry cough and his blood oxygen level is averaging around 90% with a high pulse. 

The question is (although like I said, how longs a piece of string) how quickly could this develop into something worse and how quick could his decline be. I know no one can answer this but I'm trying to get an understanding of whether we might have days, weeks or months left? Like I say, he's past every timeframe previously given and we are so blessed to have had him fighting for so long - just looking for answers I probably can't get.

  • Hello  

    I am Brian, one of the Community Champions here at Macmillan. I have just noticed your post has gone unanswered. I can't answer it myself as I have a different cancer, however by me replying your post will be "bumped up" to the top of the page and I hope seen and answered by other members of the Mesothelioma group.

    I do hope you get some answers - I find on the group I am a member of (The Prostate Group) there is a connection between those members who have a positive attitude and outlook to their longevity.

    I wish you and your dad well.

    Best wishes - Brian.

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  • Hello so sorry your dad has this disease my husband had it and with him it was so fast he was diagnosed in August of 23 and passed in October of 23 .sending prayers and hugs.