Epithelioid mesothelioma

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My Dad was diagnosed with Epithelioid Mesothelioma about 6 months ago. They decided to start immunotherapy and he had two or three rounds then he started to have a really bad upset stomach that went on for a few weeks so they said he couldn’t have treatment for a bit until his stomach had settled as he was losing too much weight. They put him on steroids that thankfully started working almost straightaway and he isn’t anywhere near as fatigued as he was. I’m so confused, just over two weeks ago he had a CT scan and he saw his oncologist three days after. She told him that she had seen the scan and was waiting for a radiographer report but from what she could see it hadn’t spread. He had a telephone appointment yesterday in which she said she was sorry to say it had spread and he could no longer have treatment. I’m so so confused as I just feel like none of it adds up. 

  • Hi, Dont leave it there, ask for a meeting re what do we do next an explanation etc. obviously if immunotherapy isn't working you have to look at other options like Chemo. Ref her saying looked like it hadn’t spread she is not a radiographer who are more qualified to analyse  a CT. So go back to them first, as I say there is also chemo. Ultimately and early days yet you are legally entitled to a second opinion on the NHS. By the way I have been through almost three yesrs of this as a sufferer. Good luck. 

  • Thank you. I understand when something spreads they are dubious about different treatments but after hearing the phone call I was both shocked and disappointed that she’d basically just left it like ‘Sorry there’s nothing else we can do’ Can you tell me please how I would go about getting a 2nd opinion? Am I right in saying this type is the slowest growing Mesothelioma? Sorry for all the questions. I am sorry to hear you are also going through this.

  • She should have phrased it differently saying she couldn’t see anything but have to wait for the official results,I think you wouldn't have been so shocked. I have been through the cant do anymore ! Mine was due to liver problems and I accepted it and with no more treatment ( no chemo due to liver problems) I  accepted my fate but its a year later and still here.. ref a referral, well I am going through it myself as I only recently found out. Basically you ask your current people for that referal they must do it. If they have discharged you to your GP then you ask them. Now of course you really want to find who you want referring to, in my case Leicester MDT. MDT is the team that looks at your case. So geographically see who is convenient and of course with a mesothelioma specialist. ( is your current one Meso specialist or just general ? ). Before all this I would still go back and ask for a full explanation why they say nothing else they can do? Chemo ? I also find doing it with a phone call a bit weird, I would have expected that and a discussion. 
    Well thats a lot from me, I hope it helpd , Paul

  • See my other longer reply, I forgot to confirm that it is the slowest. Have you not been given booklets etc ? Macmillan are a great help, there should be a macmillan team at your hospital, again surprised they didn't contact you ? Have you put in a claim against where you got the asbestos from ? Have you claimed your weekly benefits from the govt ? Blue badge ?. Sorry, got carried away, Paul