Just diagnosed

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Hi everyone! I was told the lesion on my forearm was a BCC and an attempt at cryo was made in July 2024 to burn it off. The area came back and by Nov last year I started pestering my gp. More reassurance as it was still only 1 cm but raised and bleeding. Agreed to refer me to dermatology and I had an excision at the end of March. It was a large scar which surprised me. I was then called back to be told it was a melanoma and 4.1 on the Breslow scale. So deep rather than wide. I am now waiting for an op for wider/deeper excision and sentinel lymph node removal. I have just received good news from my full ct scan which showed no clear signs of melanoma cells. However I presume this doesn’t necessarily mean my lymph nodes will be clear - or they wouldn’t need to test?
I have found the anger over delay and misdiagnosis the most difficult thing but know that I need to move on and shake away this anger. I have a supportive husband, family and friends but hate to burden them with worries. I’m sure others feel like this? (Having had a BCC removed from my nose 8 years ago I’m aware this worry will be with me for a long time.). 
im sure it will help me just to be part of a positive and helpful community.  FifiL

  • Hi, I would say welcome but that seems a strange thing to say. I found this forum really helpful and nice to know you're not on your own and reach out to people that know how you feel.

    I've recently been diagnosed and am waiting on the WLE & SLNB results, but like you I was not expecting a melanoma diagnosis.

    Take careHeart
    Kate

  • Thank you! You’re right it’s really helpful to have contact with others who understand how you’re feeling. Waiting is probably the worst thing. Slight frown

  • Similar to you I went to the doctors in July last year but was told it was fine. I noticed an itch in March and it had grown so went back and was put on the two week fast track. My biggest problem has been trying to get the ‘what if’s’ out of my mind but like my wife said I can’t do anything about the past and need to concentrate on where I’m at now. I had the WLD and SLNB last week and am nervous about the results but I’ve seen so many positive stories on here and how treatment has got so much better. Wishing you all the best,