Hello,
I'm new here and firstly wanted to say hello, and feel like I've joined something. I hope that makes sense.
This week I have seen a specialist who is as certain as he can be that I have a 3mmx3mm melanoma on my arm. I'm booked in for surgery towards the end of this month. He's taken me through details of the surgery etc but I think I'm looking to hear from people who have been in this situation, please.
I'm not entirely sure how I feel, or how to feel. I'm being extremely logical and focusing on it being removed and that's that. But I don't really understand the risks or likelihood of there being a worse case.
Apologies for not articulating myself very well, I'm not entirely sure what I'm asking. Just need a bit of company through this, I think.
Thank you
Hi Mouse7 and a very warm welcome to the group which I hope you'll find is an informative and supportive place to be.
I think from your post that your surgery is to remove a lesion which, looking at it, is possibly a melanoma. Is that right? If so, then it will be sent off to the pathology laboratories to be examined to see whether it is a melanoma or not.
Although it's natural to be scared, even the specialists get it wrong sometimes and it might not be a melanoma, although I can understand you wanting to prepare for the worst. I've had two moles removed. The first the consultant was sure was 'nothing to worry about' and it turned out to be a melanoma whereas the second one the consultant (a different one) thought it was a melanoma but it wasn't!
When you go for your biopsy excision make sure to ask how long results are currently taking in your area of the country and who to contact if you've not heard within that timeframe. It's also a good idea to ask how you'll hear, ie hospital appointment, over the telephone by letter, etc.
Let us know how you get on
Anne
Hello, thank you for responding to me.
I had the exam last week and I'm having it removed on Monday, so a quick turn around. He said it has all the markers and does look very suspicious, however, he thinks it's early stage.
I think I may have been quite naive by simply believing this will be removed and that's that. But I really don't know what's going on in there, do I? I know I shouldn't worry until the results are back but I do feel as though I've been a bit naive. I suppose there is the risk this won't be simple, right?
Thank you
That's perfectly true but it may be simple
It's natural to worry but try to remember that no amount of worry will change the outcome but it will ruin the present.
xx
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