Hello everyone. I have previously commented on a couple of posts but not introduced myself. I am stage 3c melanoma. I was misdiagnosed by my doctor and not referred 3 times for a changing mole before i insisted it was removed. I have had a WLE and skin graft. (under local) That was fine. The skin graft got infected and is now clearing up with antibiotics. initial scans all clear. have seen the oncologist and he has offered a year of adjuvant therapy, which i am just considering. The one thing that gives me the most anxiety is the humongous list of potential side effects. I am envisaging a year bedridden with all sorts of serious problems. I am usually a glass half full kind of person but the thought of treatment side effects is frightening me no end. I have anxiety anyway so really unhelpful and i have just had my first proper wobble. Hence reaching out for support and positive experiences even though I know everyone experience in different. When i say positive i mean issues can be dealt with and you can still carry on even if that's just pottering about the house and a few walks. Many thanks
