After a very long wait I have finally had the WLE and SNLB done for my stage 2B melonoma on my upper arm. I am pleased to say that it has all gone very well and has not caused me too much discomfort. I can honestly say it was no where near as bad as I was expecting. I do have one little issue. I seem to have developed a phobia with the scar on my arm and can not bring myself to touch it. I have been told by the hospital to massage in soft paraffin gel twice a day. I can apply the ointment to the scar under my arm which I can not see and is smaller but as yet I have a strong repulsion of the one on my arm. I would not say that I am a particularly queasy person so am surprised by this. Thank goodness for my husband who is dutifully applying the ointment and massaging the scar. I have got to find a way to overcome this problem as the application of moisturiser is going to go on for a long time if I want the best outcome for the scar.
Has anybody else had this problem? Any suggestions as to how to overcome it would be helpful.
Thanks
Claire
Hiya . Glad all went well . I have massive scars and massive phobia still but am getting to grips with them . In the shower I force myself to cover them in shower gel and approach them gently . One of them I got drunk and rubbed moisturiser in for 15 minutes and the next day realised how much better it felt so got over that one . Plus effects of anaesthetic!! I think for mine it is better to keep checking in case anything else pops up as well . I’m sure in your case it won’t but always good to have it in the bag there’s no nasties. Use your husband too xx
I’m the same it makes me feel sick. I have a few inch scar on my right thigh just above my knee. I’m awaiting a WLE so haven’t massaged it yet really x
I do have some good news, after a couple of weeks and once all the stitches had gone I could deal with it. I hope it is just a matter of time for you to get over the yuck factor.
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