Hello all,
I wanted to share some good news, as I know that when I was in the middle of that chaotic and often desperate journey through diagnosis and treatment, hearing good news stories gave me hope that there was a way through.
To quickly summarise my journey, I had a nodular melanoma removed from my neck in 2015 (initially misdiagnosed by my GP) that then spread to my lymph nodes and then to my lungs.
I’ve had major surgery (left neck clearance and removal of a saliva gland), radiotherapy on my cheek and neck, 2.5 years on targeted therapy went it first spread to my lungs, and then when that stopped working and it came back in my lungs in early 2020, immunotherapy.
I had a strange immunotherapy experience as it started just as the first lockdown began and my dual was converted to single Nivo after one infusion because they didn’t yet understand how COVID could impact it and the risk of hospitalised from side effects when COVID was still without effective treatment.
I tolerated 3 more Nivo treatments until it was stopped due to side effects, and had an anxious wait to see if it continued to work.
The next scan showed an almost complete response and the following one confirmed there was no trace of melanoma remaining. I’ve just had my latest 6 monthly scan results and I’m still clear.
As we’ve reached 3 years since treatment and I’m still showing a complete response, they’re now classifying me as in complete remission. I had that milestone in sight from the start as my consultant had told me the likelihood of recurrence greatly reduced after 3 years.
So - for everyone fighting this thing - I know how dreadful it is. But there is a pathway through it thanks to these miraculous new treatments.
Tarilan I cannot tell you how much I needed to see this today. My husband is 36 and is stage IV. He had no primary site, first indication if anything was swollen lymph nodes which thank God he went to the GP about immediately and was sent for a CT that very day. He has had one round of ipinivo which showed some reduction but also some new cancer which due to timelines of scans etc they are unable to determine whether new cancer appeared before or after treatment. He had severe liver trauma so on to nivo now, one round down, another in a couple of weeks and then another scan.
We have two little girls who need and adore him and seeing this today has given me hope on a day when I feel very low. So thank you so much.
You’re welcome. My children were aged 8 and 5 when I received the stage 4 diagnosis which felt like a death sentence at the time. It’s hard to cope with that and keep things normal for the children.
But there is hope and I took courage from the stories of people who went before me and I feel it’s important to provide the same encouragement for those following after.
In time it became the new normal and we learnt to live around it, staying vigilant and learning to cope with the dread around scan time. Humans are very good at adapting and surviving.
I wish you and your husband the very best of luck.
Thankyou very much for this post! My partner (he’s 38) was diagnosed stage IV this March with brain mets that had spread from 1 tiny groin lymph node. It was a massive shock. He’s finished 3 rounds of ipi-nivo & now had 3 rounds of single nivo. First 3-month follow-up scans showed the brain tumours had all shrunk >50% (yay) & nothing new. He’s back at work, going to the gym and basically living an almost normal life. We often forget he has cancer. Next round of scans are booked next week, always a terribly anxious time waiting for results but we have no reason to doubt they’ll come back good. I just keep believing we’ll hear the words ‘complete response’ like you have & he’ll keep on powering on for years to come
Thank you so much for posting this! I have Stage 4a melanoma, diagnosed May 2023. It is a recurrence Stage 3a. Two days ago, my consultant mentioned they might stop my Immunotherapy treatment if side effects continued because I've already had a 'partial response'. (All tumours have reduced.) I've 'only' had 2 Ipi+Nivo and 1 Nivo. I was shocked. I wanted the security of 2 years of Nivo. I wanted the 'hard core option'. I felt scared about the treatment being taken away. This message reassures me. I know my team will monitor me.
I love your phrase '3 year milestone'. What a great thing! I will borrow this beautiful phrase for myself and count my own milestones. I'm so happy for you that you're in complete remission. Thanks for sharing your story.
Warm wishes,
Dots
Fantastic Tarilan!
My situation is similar, though my consultant has never mentioned a 3 year milestone! No matter, my excellent team dragged me through the melanoma surgery, pills, tests & scans which led to just one round of IpiNivo. They wouldn't give me anymore! The full story is in my profile.
But that's 4 years ago this autumn. I'm working (in a physical job), sailing and leading a full life with just a few issues following my body's reaction to treatment. My last scan results this month scan show no change /stable & thats good.
I hope my story gives some encouragement too.
Best
J
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What amazing news, so happy for you and long may it continue! I was diagnosed stage 4 in December 2022, I've had 3 rounds of ipi/nivo which the scan showed had reduced the cancer to practically nothing. I've then had two rounds of single dose nivo which was stopped in July because of low cortisol levels so I was on steroids for two months. Another scan has showed that the cancer has shrunk even more though so I've had really good results. Seeing the consultant next week to hopefully get a date for going back on the immunotherapy.
When I was diagnosed they told me it wasn't curable but in rare cases the immunotherapy can get rid of it completely which is what I've always been aiming for and your story makes that scenario more likely so thank you for that! I've got twin girls who have just turned 13 so it's all about them and making sure life is as normal as possible which most days now I can do, but I can't wait for the day I can tell them it's completely gone!!!!
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