Hi im new, struggling with moms cancer she also has copd so at min there nothing Dr's can do
( treatment ) I need advice on living with me
Hi DonnieO24
Welcome to our community, perhaps the best club nobody ever wanted to join.
Having more than one issue does complicate things. my wife's cancer has quite a lot of mets in her lungs and for her she had a complication of having a lung collapse so I can relate on not jumping in to treatment.
One thing I found helpful was the page on your feelings when someone has cancer being able to recognize the emotions as normal helped to to find them less overwhelming. I did a living with less stress course that helped me to recognize that putting lots of energy in to worrying about a future I could not control was stopping me from appreciating what we have.
It can take a while to get our minds around what the world is in our new normal.
<<hugs>>
Steve
