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Hi Tessy welcome to the group, but sorry to hear about your dad. It really is terrifying when a loved one has a cancer diagnoses. Talking about it does help, so you have taken the first step by joining us here. You can also call the support line on 0808 808 00 00 who are available 7 days a week from 8am until 8pm. 

Hi there, so sorry to hear about your dad. My mum was diagnosed with lung cancer last year. In the beginning I found the news very difficult to digest. I also have young children and didn’t want it to affect them. Sounds like a cliche but I found time was a healer. The longer I had to process everything the somewhat easier it got to handle. I found it also helped once we had a treatment plan in place. 
And of course using this site can be a great source of support and comfort. x

Hi Tessi, your in the right place here to chat anytime you need, I know it’s hard but be brave and things will get easier for you

just know your not alone xx 

Hi Tessy sorry to hear about your dad my partner has small cell lung cancer and it is a long road but you will get through it sometimes you will feel down and frightened but it's natural and with a baby it can't be easy.  Talking helps and knowing there are people around you going through the same things can go a long way in helping you.   I hope you also have a good family network and friends to be there for you.  I wish you all the luck and there's always someone on the forum to chat to x