Anyone got my big girl pants ?

Hi Elly, sorry you are feeling so rubbish today. A walk may make you feel a little better. But do you know what? On days like these, with all that you are going through, it is ok to tell yourself it is OK to feel like this ! You are not Wonder Woman. You are going through something that you have never had to face before, and let’s be honest, it’s the scariest thing anyone ever has to do. 

Have a walk, have a nice bath, and what I sometimes do is shut myself away in my room, away from everyone because I know that my thoughts and feelings will only upset everybody. Go with your feelings today, have a bloody good cry, and I’m sure tomorrow you will feel better xx 

Thanks Chelle , I think that’s a really good idea , a few hours just being in my own head and space might help , I’m tired of holding it in for fear of upsetting others so I might just do that , have a me afternoon with the duvet and a bath later…. Strictly catch up with a magnum too I think, just to help my sore throat of course …

Hi elly

I completely agree with chelieimo ,have a me  afternoon and tomorrow  or later you will start to feel better ...prehaps I shouldn't say because you feel so rubbish  but you have cheered me up reading your post ..you actually made me laugh out loud  you have a great way of writing x..sending you a hug xx

Thanks Cath maybe I should do a blog… what shall I call it?

Yes you should ...I think it will help others and prehaos  yourself ... the title must have something about your big girl pants in it  xx

Hmmmm I’ll have a think? Hope you’re ok Cath ? X

Hi Elly

so sorry to hear your having a down day, you get full marks from me for admitting that, it is ok to have a down day. My suggestion go and have a nice bubbly bath whilst listening to you favourite music or watching your favourite tv program, after you’ve had a walk to blow out your thoughts. You don’t need big girl pants for a down day, I’m saving them for you  for a day they are really needed, 

for this evening go spoil yourself big hugs 

Donna

Thanks Donna thats exactly what I’ve done , tried to listen to weird whale music but that wasn’t happening so switched to Simply Red … better ….. didn’t get a walk but did get 30 mins emptying sumner flower baskets into the green bin made me sad , but realised I was living my new high life . I’m planning a strictly catch up with a salted caramel ice cream tub …. Still feel low with a mixture of anxious tummy but I’m going to accept that right now and hope tomorrow brings a slightly better outlook and my pants back …. Hope you’ve had a good day ? Elly x