Hi all.
Hi Nanny noo noo
sorry you find yourself on here. I was in the Sam position as you at Christmas with the same diagnosis, and yes it is a shock, take some time to process what you have been told and whatever you do don’t Google anything, the information is not up to date and is often misleading. If you need to speak to anyone before you speak to you oncologist please contact Macmillion support line.
My advise is try and think about the questions you want to ask your oncologist and listen to what they are telling you if you can. It can be very difficult to take in what is being said to you, I know it can, you will be given some contact numbers for a specialist nurse so don’t get to upset if you leave the oncologist appointment and you have asked all the question you wanted to or you think of more questions. If this happens ring your specialist nurse they are there to help and support, mine were brilliant right from the start, macmillion have been great and I’ve had great support from others in this chat group.
everyone’s journey is unique, and you will feel better when you have a treatment plan to work with. Good luck with your appointment and update us when you can we are here for each other
Hi..hamhat,
Thank you for your reply.
I'm having a bit of a melt down at the moment !
Regards
Nanny noo noo
Hi Nanny noo noo
i am so sorry to hear this, it must be so confusing for you. I to have NSCLC it’s spread to lymph nodes so I really do understand what you are going through. I know your next appointment seems a long way off, have the hospital given you the contact details for a spec list nurse, if they have please give them a call and express your concerns to them. Please know you are not alone in this journey, and I am always happy to chat as are many people on this forum.
this diagnosis is not as difficult as it used to be, treatment has come a long way and we can come through treatment and get back to enjoying a normal life. Everyone’s treatment plan is different they tailor it to fit the individual, mine consisted of 4 cycles of chemotherapy and immunotherapy combined I completed this part of my plan at the end of April and I’m now having immunotherapy every 3 weeks for the next 2 years my last ct scan showed there has been improvement and for all of this I feel very lucky.
I know you feel sad at the moment but please believe me things will get better, in the mean time please feel free to have a rant to me and try and have some fun over the extended bank holiday
Hugs xxx Donna
Hi Donna.
Thank you for lending me your ear.
It was when I rang my specialist nurse on Wednesday that I was told about there being spread to my rh side lymph nodes.
I was very confused to say the least that my oncologist was looking at results that showed no spread ..but my specialist nurse was looking at different results than my oncologist had discussed with me 2 days earlier.
Best Linda x
hiya Linda
i hope things are a little less confusing for you now, I hope they have clearly informed you of your diagnosis, and if there has been spread.
I am always happy to lend an ear, enough kind people on this forum have been there for me when I needed someone,
if you have any questions at all please feel feel to contact me, I happy to explore anything with you, as I said cancer is different for everyone even if 2 people have the same diagnosis.
in the mean time do something to make you smile take care
Donna
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