Hi, I got diagnosed with cancer in my chest on Dec 6th, then after a CT scan on the 17th of December I got told on the 22nd of December I have terminal lung cancer. I was in such a shock when I was told that I didn’t really take in what was being said. I’m hoping to start immunotherapy or chemo this week to try and slow this down to buy me more time. I’m utterly terrified and seem to swing between feeling wildly optimistic to utterly devastated. I’m assuming this is normal. The hardest thing is seeing what it’s doing to the people I love but I also feel so blessed to have people around to support and help me.
This is such a rollercoaster of emotion. I’m hoping it gets easier. I can’t go on like this.
Also, Is it normal to feel really angry when I see in the news or hear people moaning about petty things that just seems so irrelevant.
Hello Nan of 5,
Sorry to hear your news. It is perfectly normal to feel all kinds of emotions when you've just been landed with a bombshell. I remember feeling like that too and sometimes still have the odd moment when I get really upset. I'm sure once your team have a plan in place you'll be able to focus on that and organise yourself accordingly.
My family found it really difficult too but now we just get on with it day to day.
I wish you well with the immunotherapy or chemo.
Please let us know how you get on.
little-fi x
Hi there....it's dreadful when you are first diagnosed, totally overwhelming and so hard to get your head round.
Most of us get diagnosed at stage 4 and whilst it's not curable it IS treatable. Don't Google as most of the info is totally outdated.
I've had 4 treatments of immunotherapy so far (one every 6 weeks) and after the first 2 treatments my tumor had shrunk from 4cms to 1.7cms.
At first we all think we're going to die and go into panic mode, but I promised you that that will pass. You'll feel more positive once you start treatment and you should come on here as there's always someone happy to chat and to give you advice.
Try and enjoy the present and not worry too much about would could happen years from now. There are constant advances in treatments and hopefully before long they'll find something that can keep it at bay permanently.
Xxc
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