Husband so ill

Former Member
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My Husband had a whole lung removed .He was doing ok then suddenly ended up back in ICU and on a ventilator The last 11 days have been up and down.He is now on everything they have and kidney machine.We are seeing him at 2pm today and docs want to tell us whats going on.I am so scared they want to stop treatment i don't know what to say or do. 

  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Hi  and welcome to the Online Community. I dropped by from a different forum and noticed you've not had a reply from the members here as yet. By my answering it'll bring your post up to the top of the listings so I'm sure someone here will be along to chat.

    I'm so sorry to read about your husband's situation and you must be so very worried. I notice you posted yesterday so what happened after your meeting with the Doctors? The last 15 months have proved that our wonderful NHS Doctors and staff do everything they can and they don't give up so please don't think that they'll just stop treatment. Try and think positive, easy to say, hard to do. You're not alone and the supportive members here will help.

    Sending you hugs, B x

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to Former Member

    Hi

    David passed away peacefully yesterday morning.He made he own decision to go .

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to Former Member

    Hello . I am so very sorry for your loss, please accept my sincere condolences. 

    You might gain a little comfort to be able to chat to other members who have found themselves in the same situation so I could mention we have a supportive Bereaved spouses and partners group, I've tagged , the Community Champion of the group to chat to you.

    Sending hugs, B xx

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    Former Member in reply to Former Member

    Thank you so much 

  • Oh my Andrea, my heart is so sad for you, sending love and condolences xxxxxx

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    Former Member in reply to Toppy

    Thank you xx

  • Andrea I’m so sorry. I hope you find support and comfort in the bereavement forum xx