Hello all I’m Donna
here is my story soo far I called my GP with a croaky voice she referred me to a ENT specialist and sent me for a X-ray on my Chest I was very confused by this anyway I had my X-ray on 21 sept 20 on the 22nd I got a call saying my go wanted to talk to me I was so scared she called and said they had seen a mass on my left lung then it started I had CT scan MRI scan and a BIOPSY on my lung I got called from the lung clinic to say could I come in next day I was omg this is it anyway he told me I had inoperable lung cancer and would be referred to a oncologist I see him on the 2 nov 20 he showed me a picture of my cancer and we decided on a plan I was to have radiotherapy for 4 weeks plus chemotherapy at the same time for 6 weeks he told it would be tough but I’m only 53 and otherwise fit so I was due to start on 16 nov 20 on 3rd nov he called and said that my treatment was gonna be a week after now as I had not had a PETSCAN yet which was due on 14 nov so off I went for the pet scan so right up to date on Wednesday just gone his secretary called and said doctor wanted to see me before my preaccessment which was on Thursday could I come in at 9am next day I FELL TO PEICES I never slept all night cryed in my husbands arms told him this was going to be bad news my son picked us up off we went to see the ontology he told us the worth thing we could have heard I have we then had to tell my son 33 and his wife and babies 15 13 11 9. It’s them my heart is breaking for we have decided to live everyday to its fullest and make the most of what time we do have My husband and my family are my everything it’s them I feel I’m letting down I am started a weeks radiotherapy tomorrow to ease som symptoms then we will see what the next step is
My heart is broken but I’m gonna try and be strong for my wonderful husband and son and grandkids don5 want them to ever see me sad if I can help my husband can be the one whose shoulder I cry on thank you r listening
Hi Doc
So, that sounds similar to my own treatment, the chemo & immuno for 4 infusions and then just the immuno every three weeks thereafter although probably best to check the last bit with your own onc... Mine will go on for up to two years - hopefully... (hahaha)
Take a book,, wear comfy clothing and try to chill as much as poss - the thing about infusions is they take a while so really no point in being impatient (take your I-pad as well as most treatment centres have free wi-fi).
Also, wrap up warm and especially try to keep your hands warm as the canula normally goes in somewhere on either hand.
Apart from that your nurses should give you great advice for afterwards - I had a few side effects but mine was a different concoction. One of my biggest probs was constipation and to combat that I started to have a apple, an orange and a banana every evening and then a glass of Andrews just before bed. But once you get into it al,l come back and tell us how you're coping and I'm sure if need be, there will be plenty of advice for the inside track...
In the meantime, Merry Christmas &
Stay Strong
SiT
Stay Strong
SiT
i started my first chemo and immune treatment the day was pretty good pints and pints of fluid and 5 bags of medication very strong sickness drugs and a powerful steroids this is when it started i had been told to take the prescribed 4 one day before and in the morning before so after the treatment started to go bad 4 hours in i began to feel dizzy so i asked them to check my blood sugar and they did i was 19 I'm usually after eating ect 12 ish i asked them to ask the doctor as i cant take any more meds as im on the top so id need to move to insulin the doctor said she is not over worried so i came home after being there over 7 hours i ate slept for a few hours woke up wide awake been peeing for England so i stayed up from 1230 at about 4 i returned to bed and have just woke up from a very nasty dream which i don't do so again must be the meds i feel dizzy i have taken my diabetes meds early gonna grab a slice of toast and try to chat to the doctor when they open and take bloods in a hour or so but i cant take them steroids at the moment they are treating me nasty i need my sugars to get back to a better level thanks for listening donc xx
Oh Dear, you have a lot to contend with, with the diabetes as well. I hear people say they are having to take the “dreaded” steroids. Hope you are able to talk to your doctor about this, this morning. Good news is that’s a big ️for your first treatment. Once you get the chemo done you’ll find the immunotherapy a doddle on its own.
Hi Donna,
I have only just joined here and seen your post I am so sorry firstly that this is happening to you and your family.
Secondly I can 100% hand on heart say you are not letting your family down in the slightest. I am here as my mum is it your position and could have written your post. So in similar shoes of your son he definitely wouldn't want you to feel this way.
Also as truly heartbreaking as your situation is. It really upsets me that my mum hides how she is feeling to protect me. At 31 though I want to be there for her and we do need to break down and cry together at times as its so not fair.
My mum isn't suitable to have it but we have heard amazing things of immuno therapy I hope it helps you have much more time with your family xx
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