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So here I am in June I was told without biopsy results that I have breast cancer and lung mets.Well today I was told a more professional oncologist that I don't have any mets even my bone scan was clear but I have a primary lung cancer.Some oncologist are just so unprofessional assuming from 1 CT scan that it's a metastasis.

So I had my biopsy results today and had a different doctor. What a difference it's make if you speak to a person who cares.

At least this doctor didn't tell me I am going to die soon and he said I have lots of treatment options and I just might have oral chemo only. I am not excited but at least I know I will be still here for a while.

NOW I have the mood to fight I know there is still something to fight for.

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    hi Denisa welcome to the room no one wants to join.  nice to see you have a good ornacologist worth there weight in gold. mine is A1 has been so supportive from the beginning xmas 2016. without his pushing i would of gave up at the beginning  lots of treatment out there now. hope he comes up with a good plan for you.  if you click on names you can see what some have been through and are still here.  TC. 

  • Hi Denisa and welcome to our group. 

    When I was first told I had lung cancer ( I previously had womb cancer) I was told I had 6 months to live. Then I met my oncologist who put her arm around me, and said, you are not going anywhere. It will be 5 years this September, and I’m still under the same Oncologist, and I’m still stable. 

    You are so right, you need the encouragement and the right frame of mind, and a good oncologist are worth their weight in gold. 

    “Try to be a rainbow, in somebody else's cloud” ~ Maya Angelou
    Chelle 

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Hi Darlo thank you for your lovely message

    I had tripple negative breast cancer in 2017 and have beaten it.Now its lung cancer but I never smoked in my life so its weird.

    You should see the oncologist in June she was a nasty piece of work and uncaring.She just throw into my face my breast cancer returned and I have mets in my lungs.I had to request to be booked for lung biopsy because you just cant make diagnosis from 1 CT.I am working in the healthcare so I know a bit.She told me except chemo she cant help me.

    Anyway i told oncologist i dont want to see that one from June anymore.Even its still cancer it makes all difference.

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    FormerMember in reply to chellesimo

    Thank you Chellessimo for your kind and supportive words.Yes different doctors have sadly different attitude.

    I am really shocked because I never smoked and dont drink alcohol but I will try to stay positive.

  • Unfortunately there is not always an answer to why .

    I tested negative to the BRAC1 gene, but have still ended up with an incurable cancer at a young age. No use dwelling, you just have to get on with the cards you are dealt. 

    Living life with cancer can still be good, it’s just a different life. 

    “Try to be a rainbow, in somebody else's cloud” ~ Maya Angelou
    Chelle 

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    regards the never smoked?  read the other day that 18% of females have never smoked   in china it can be up to 45%,  so they are thinking it may be the environment we live in. TC