Hi all,
First time posting and feeling a little lost.
My mom has NSCLC, unsure of the stage but it had already spread to the glands by the time we found it, so treatable but not curable. She's been in treatment for two years, on immunotherapy only for the last year or so, and so the hospital has now stopped treatment. Unfortunately, instead of a doctor or consultant (or anyone for that matter) organising an appointment or a phone call to let her know, she went in for treatment yesterday and was sent home by the receptionist telling her her treatment has finished. While it wasn't a complete shock, the manner of the update was less than ideal.
Aside from the fact that our hospital has dealt with this terribly and we have to wait a couple of weeks to speak to a doctor (my mom should be pushier on this but she won't be), does anyone have any experience of being at this stage and what to expect next? I feel so grateful that we've even got to this stage but it feels pretty scary for everything to have stopped so abruptly.
Thanks in advance!
Hi MGI, I am so sorry that this has happened to your mum. That is really poor communication from the hospital, your mum should never of found out this way! I guess she had a scan prior to this treatment session, and that is why they have stopped the treatment?
I know you said your mum wouldn’t push for answers, but I would be calling my lung nurse to find out what is going on. 2 weeks left in limbo is a long time to wait!
Hiya sorry you been treated like this , my mum finished her treatment in June - and then they wanted to do radio therapy / they told her on a call/ that they would contact her every 12 weeks for a scan - if she had any issues or problems in that time to contact her team- , unfortunately less than 10 weeks after being told all her scan were great - she now has a brain lesion - x so any issues call the cancer team - they should be able to help :) I wish your mummy well and hope she can enjoy life now her treatment has finished :) xxx
Hi,
A receptionist would not have been told the treatment had finished - patient confidentiality - only that the appointment had been cancelled. It should not have happened like this, but what to do about it?
Start with the name of the oncologist/consultant and put that into Google.
Bypass the contact links for NHS, go to the private links instead: e.g. BUPA. The phone number there will be direct to the consultant's secretary, not some hospital intermediary. You need the engineer, not his oily rag.
Phone the secretary and get a callback appointment from the consultant to ask what is happening with the treatment plan.
kind regards,
Steve
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