Morning All,
What a wonderful resource this is.
My husband has been fit and well until about six weeks ago.
a chest X-ray showed a mass and a smaller mass. Also a massive amount of fluid in lower left.
he had fluid drained now four times in the last three weeks.
I know we are waiting and have biopsy’s and things booked but what I can’t understand is how different he is in such a short time.
not eating, sleeping all day, hasn’t left the house for six weeks and lost almost three stone.
should I be more aggressive with speeding things up or is this how it goes ?
he has barely spoken in the last week.
I can’t work out if this is shock, and emotional reaction or a rapid decline.
he’s told me ‘ I will be gone soon, but it’s OK ‘ which isn’t like him. He has never been passive about anything in his life.
I am at a loss as to what to do to help him.
Any thoughts or advice gratefully received.
thanks
Mary
