Hey, so a little about me.. I'm 31, 4 beautiful children aged between 11 and 18months old.
I was originally diagnosed with triple negative invasive ductual breast cancer in July 2019, when I was are 12 weeks pregnant with my now 18month old. I was successfully treated and finished all treatment June 2020, so I'm now 1 year 'free'.
I was recently rushed to a&e with a suspected blood clot on my lung, only to be told they are clear and no clots present, however, the ct scan picked up shadows on my liver. I'm now waiting for further test to confirm what they are pretty certain to be not only liver cancer but also ovarian, adrenal and more than likely lymphnodes again.
Im so lost right now, iv no idea what to do, I'm barely functioning right now.
Please, any words of advice are kindly welcomed
Xx
Thank you for you reply.
Is your wife OK?
Mt previous ct scan was clear, no abnormalities, marks, fuzziness. That was a full body ct so would have shown up, do these marks show over time or would they always have been there do you know?
I'm not 100% sure but I reckon they might show over time.
It's confirmed metastatic breast cancer in the liver and surrounding lymphnodes. Non operable, manageable not curable.. whole world seems to be falling apart right now
I too have breast cancer found in Jan , 2 weeks after confirmed spread to lungs , liver all lymph nodes and bones , it's a daily struggle to find things to want to live for apart from my beautiful kids 12 & 6 , focus on whatsoever good about life , don't worry about what's going to happenx
Mummaof4…saw your post…I’m metastic sec liver too…they say non operable ..my kidneys were bleeding out and “injured” too…with a bowl under my hospital bed in my dining room I was sent home “ to die in my own bed” a year ago exactly July …I didn’t die
I repaired my kidneys with diet…seriously !! Hospital rang me twice to ask me how I did it …
no blood now… no more bleeding out
the cancers? I don’t know where the other sites are ….only thing is I find takes the edge off a bit is seek out comedy on tv and movies, and indulge myself thoroughly….
if you do have 4 kids …try to find other …mummas of 4 or two or three …who are also sick and suggest a share…
of kids play dates foods clothes ….idea?
Lots of peace to you :*)
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