Hi to all
I have been told I need a total larangectomy for larynx cancer on other side possibly also same side but not as bad as last time ,having had radiotherapy and laser for previous cancer .this is my only option .
i have been reading and am worried as always says there are lots of problems due to previous radiotherapy and surgery’s on tissues now I am wondering to leave this I do not want to suffer anymore .
i have a pre op tomorrow and the surgery if pre op goes well next Saturday
urgent advice needed I don’t think it’s worth putting myself or family through anymore I am 59 now
had gone back to work and driving now it’s all happening again
prayers and love to all going through this nasty c word
Hi there Chris
firstly Thankyou for replying ,and also that you remembered my name from previous .
I am sorry you to have had recurrence in this to and three times but also so pleased you have got through and all this time later donig so we’ll and still positive.they have said I will have muscle taking and used as flap because of previous radiotherapy and also will fit a voice thing but I know how good that is , I guess just feel every time I get up somthing kicks me down and I guess it’s so disappointing and my children are great but so upset .
I will go to the pre op and talk with them as also they have found a Meningioma on a scan by chance so I’m waiting to go to Oxford for this and was meant to be two week referral back in March and only just got told appointments will be one sec and one in January not sure why two appointments but this has also upset me like this cancer been tellnig then since January got a two week referral off doctor so that was good but only now are they saying it’s back I don’t get it as last biopsy scan I was told was clear that was only months ago now I feel no trust in medical
sorry long message but wanted to explain why I feel so against having it done to many mistakes don’t make u feel safe
take care to and thank u
You are welcome to my advice, i was told that this was my last chance to stop cancer, thankfully i believed in my consultant and he believed in me. Personally, i have had no mistakes, ok it returned but its not the consultant's fault it just just bad luck. I also would advise you to chat with a counselor who will help you, i was on anti-depressants and counseling at one time because it got too much for me to take in. We all have choices, thankfully i took a chance and my consultant backed me all the way and i live to tell the tale. How did you get on. Take care.
Thank u again
and u to have been through so much , but gives me hope as I know this is also my only option to rid the cancer like you said . I’m glad u had a consultant that was there for you and had your back and supported you all the way . This does help greatly , at the minute my own hospital has not sent over my details to the hospital I am having it done which has delayed op for Saturday and time going over to the other hospital twice these kind of mistakes make you feel anxious now I got to wait for larangectomy nurse to contact me about the situation
I know that you you had a lot of trouble before which i agree does not give you much confidence let's hope you get better treatment this time around as we are all entitled to be treated fairly. You can also post this in the head and neck group as there are people on there who will maybe have help and advise you, please let us know how you get on, Wishing you all the best.
Hi there Chris
thank you for the reply
yes I had lots of trouble before , and let’s hope once they get my notes over all will go as smoothly as possible .
I will have another look on head and neck lim sure I’m not the only one having problems
yes I keep updating wen I know more
regards Pauline x